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How to not have to talk to your parents anymore? At least for half a year to not hear from them and to leave me the fk alone finally.

But to not be hurtful in the process. Maybe a little bit, but not too much.
If you don't want to wipe your parents for good then you should probably stay in contact. If they were good parents and you love them then you should stay in contact, just tell them you need space if they smoother you. If they don't respect it then avoid them for a bit every time they cross the line until they get it.
One day your parents won't be around so you need to appreciate them while you can while taking care of yourself
@Dan193 yes she's being selfish but she loves you. Don't go no contact but you can temporarily block her number. She should want you to live your own life, your not here to please her, she's there to care and encourage you
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@MushroomFaerie I can't block her number.
@Dan193 oh okay
Sinnerwithaheart · 56-60, F
Just tell them that you will be out of contact for a bit and to please respect your space.
Sinnerwithaheart · 56-60, F
@Dan193 Then ignore them.
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@Sinnerwithaheart I can't. I feel like I'll be a bad person and son, if I did. But they don't give me any respect, because "I'll always be their baby" 😤😡
Sinnerwithaheart · 56-60, F
@Dan193 Awwwwww.
SW-User
It'll be pretty hurtful no matter how you do it, so take your pick.
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@SW-User I just feel like they're suffocating me and don't leave me alone to be independent. It happened my whole life while I was home, and as I left, they're still pushing their ideas on me. Especially when they're trying to give me things. Like that takes the whole independent thing away.
Like leave me alone! I'll be poor, I'll be sick, I'll lose everything, but at least I'll feel free. and like I own my own life.
kayoshin · 36-40, M
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@kayoshin that lucky bastard
Tukudo · 41-45, M
Same thing is happening with me...make them feel that you are not supposed to be taken for granted! Because most of the parents are thinking their children are just granted. They don't know children are gift!
TJNewton · M
Why dont you want to speak to your parents anymore ?
TJNewton · M
@Dan193 At the end of the day you are still their daughter im sure they love and just want the best for you try talking to them in a way that you want to feel rather than how they make you feel
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@TJNewton So I need to start the conversation
TJNewton · M
@Dan193 I would at least try yes

 
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