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Women: What do you do when you get messages from random guys wishing to "chat"?

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Check profile and groups and decide from there.
LyricalOne · F
If I haven’t interacted with them before, hit delete.
Peaches · F
I tell them I'd rather get to know them in the community FIRST, and often times I leave this message on one of their posts...if they have any?!😐
Bluesky52 · 61-69, M
@Peaches that's what i prefer to do,,,see if there's enough there to try.
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Egg01 · 56-60, F
@RodneyTrotter 😆😆😆
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Dusty101 · F
If someone wants to chat with me they can do it out here in public.
I have friends I will chat with in private but that is all.
Dusty101 · F
Ignore... but if I've had good banter with them in comments I'll chat with them.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
I check their profile and groups that generally tells you what they are looking for..
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
They can’t hold a convo...that’s the problem or they go right for the jugular with sex talk and you write them off.
Bluesky52 · 61-69, M
@Keepitsimple true,when i try to messege some i get takin that way,so screw it,,,,,,
Peaches · F
@Bluesky52 Maybe try commenting on some of their posts first.
Bluesky52 · 61-69, M
@Peaches i'm not going to figure it out,
FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F
They must have a 10 inch penis...It weeds out the requests. 😃
Egg01 · 56-60, F
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
SW-User
For the sake of your sanity, IGNORE IT! Never feed strays.
Pineapple · 100+, F
ignore usually. i rarely venture into my messages anyway so
I won't see their messages immediately as I use filters.
SW-User
I delete without opening.
Peaches · F
@SW-User I mostly do that too.
BlueRain · F
Usually ignore them
SW-User
Ignore them.
needsmilk808 · 56-60, M
I've always tried to assume the best of people. Thanks so much for asking this particular question it has been quite revealing.
angie8819 · 56-60, F
Ask for an underwear pic to see how they look
angie8819 · 56-60, F
@chrisCA don't understand
chrisCA · M
@angie8819 Many people just send pics downloaded from the web. Ask them to hold three fingers in the pic.
angie8819 · 56-60, F
@chrisCA never thought of that I take peoples word
SW-User
Every message is promptly read and deleted. I answer maybe one in ten. I can't keep up.
chrisCA · M
@SW-User Change your profile pic. 😅
Mine go to my "request" section and I seldom look at it. Most go to the trash folder that go there.
SW-User
Tell them to read the intro they ignored before sending it and inform them to read the about me
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
I usually never answer. The first thing I do is go check out their profile and groups.
SW-User
Check their profiles and see if they’re worth talking to
SW-User
8/10 I chat but I do keep in mind they may not be men at all lol
second2018 · 31-35, F
99% of the time ignore and hit the archive button
BlueRain · F
Usually ignore. Depends on my mood.
SW-User
Ignore and delete.
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SW-User
Ignore mostly
easypeasy · 36-40, F
Bluesky52 · 61-69, M
i give up trying to chat with people,you wont be hearing from me,
Bluesky52 · 61-69, M
@Peaches well they see the M next to my name,because of so many sick people on here,that M is a deal breaker,
Peaches · F
@Bluesky52 There's lots of males here that chat with women.
Bluesky52 · 61-69, M
@Peaches well i'm not competing,i have my way of going about it,i reply to the questions first,then i messege em,

 
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