Why does everyone think men have to lift weights and be muscular?

I think your allowing people to make you feel like you have to. No one can make you feel anything. You allow them to influence your feelings.

dont worry. only the girls on tinder think that way

Societal standards: everyone gets them

When people make suggestions I have no intention following I nod my head and say yes maybe I will in the future. Then you avoid the full court press to do whatever they want you to but never make any commitment towards actually doing it.

Wtf you dont have to who told you that?

So in other words you're a liberal.

You don't have to.

Then don’t do it

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