My friend's husband went on a business trip

@SW-User Don't set it outside--sell it on eBay, since he spent so much cheating--only fair, IMHO.

@EnigmaticGeek I like that idea. I was thinking super short term.

@SW-User I beg to differ. Huge difference! I guess I'm defending strippers here and I know that's not the popular stance but they deserve respect. The guy is an idiot that's obvious.

@abe182 It's not the working girl her fault, so far is clear. She's just a business woman. He's the loser and the low life.
He's so worthless that he has to pay for sexual excitement. That says enough. If he were that much of a casanova he wouldn't have to pay a woman for sexual excitement.

It's not that I think cheating is acceptable. I hope you understand that. It's that the predicament he got himself into is so silly. All I can see in my head is a silly guy. That's crazy to me. What was he doing at that kind of bar in the first place? That raises a question to me about what kind of person he is. Not that I think people can't or shouldn't go there but he does, so she must know that side to him, no? Then he spent all of the money on something frivolous and put himself and her in a bind. Is this the first time he spends the money irresponsibly? 🤔 She must have had some idea about what kind of person he was when she married him. Then that he cheated is an entire separate issue to me. @SW-User

@bijouxbroussard he just told her straight up what happened?🤔 How likely is that?

@SW-User Wouldn't it start with, "I need some money..." ?

@bijouxbroussard it would start with im in trouble i bet..but im still curious about how she figured it out