I Want to Find My Soulmate

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Hmm...I don't think my flaws are things to be liked XD I have said some horrible things to people in the past and I know I am not that person anymore but I know people will judged me if they knew how I used to be

Trust me. When it is supposed to happen it will. And you will not be able to run from it. The past will not matter...only the present.
We have to experience life, the good stuff and the bad, in order to grow and learn. The past is nothing but the small steps to bring us to the present.
Trust me....you've got this. 😉

I don't believe in soulmates per say, but what I mean is, just somebody who I get along well with, someone I can trust and someone who I know won't judge me based on my mistakes...so I mainly just mean someone I am compatible with XD

@LittleRebz: I thought I was so messed up I'd never find anyone that could put up with me lol and that I could put up with.

I didn't say I expect perfect...

@LittleRebz: you seem to be expecting a lot

@Kuronekko: Patience (even if it means spending time apart at first to calm things down), not to be judged and to occasionally feel like I am of importance to somebody is a lot? If that is the case then romance must be dead. When I say those qualities, I don't mean 24/7 and those three things is not asking for too much...I am not asking for a rich, successful and handsome guy who has only got positive qualities. I am asking for a guy who can sometimes show just those three qualities that I mentioned.

I disagree. I think it's good to be mindful and even list what you desire in a person. I also think one should revisit that list often for additions and revisions. It doesn't have to be written in stone. If nothing else, it allows us to watch our growth and realize that while perfection is unattainable, our happiness is.
I also believe that soulmates can be many or few and are not always a life partner.

I don't believe in soulmates either lol...I just posted it in this group because it seemed to be the closest group to the sort of thing I wanted to post ...Those few things I listed were not "perfect"...Perfect would include other things and I am not uptight about things such as looks (and so on). Asking for patience, to not be judged and for someone who will make me feel important at times is not asking for perfection. I do not mean all the time, just sometimes I want to feel important and I want to know that at crucial times, I will eventually be able to have someone to listen to me...even if it takes time for the other person to calm down first. I mean this is basically just asking for respect.