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Would u marry someone if they did not want children. 🤔 ?,

Or if they could not have children. For natural reasons.

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Moonlightfae · 51-55, F Best Comment

Yes I would..For me it's about love not what they can give me.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@Moonlightfae I see Moonlight.

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

Not a second time. Plus I already have one - which pretty much eliminates anyone who wouldn't consider someday being a step-dad. I would want to have adoption/fostering for some years on the table for someone who couldn't naturally.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@Starcrossed Si if you didn't have kids would you though.

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

@Zonuss I married a guy with no kids thinking I would be okay with never having any. He decided a few years later he'd be okay with one. I realized in our child's toddler years I want more. Still tried to make peace with that in myself that I only would get one but now that he and I are separating, I can say with certainty more kids is something I know I want with a new partner and will seek someone who is on board with this.

RobG22 · 51-55, M

My ex really a out, having constant communication is key. We ended up having two boys. They are now soon to be twenty and 17. My ex was awarded their primary custody due to my health. She went on to remarry and have another boy. She barely allows me to see or talk to my kids. Courts and lawyers have been no help. Marry her only if you can love her no matter what. Best of luck.

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Platinum · M

That's good and it will get better....@RobG22

RobG22 · 51-55, M

I could only hope. I just hope nothing happens to me and they feel no regrets. Like I feel not being able to hug, hold them, etc. The were 9 & 6½ years when me and my ex separated.

Platinum · M

That's always sad, breaking up...most times the kids seem to grow up ok...my daughter had two divorces and the kids have grown up to be lovely adults....hope things work out for you@RobG22

DefiantHeart

SOLD! I mean, yes!

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@DefiantHeart Even if you didn't have any. Do you .

DefiantHeart

@Zonuss The love shared is what brought us together. Not having kids wouldn't make me love him less.

VioletRayne · 31-35, F

Nope. Kinda a lil late for that option don’t ya think?

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@VioletRayne It depends on the person...all situations are different. ☺️

VioletRayne · 31-35, F

@Zonuss [c=#4C0073]late for me[/c]

Loretta78 · 46-50, F

If the partner could not have children for natural reasons I wouldn´t have a problem to marry him. :-)

SW-User

Sure as I don’t want children of my own.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@SW-User Ok

RobG22 · 51-55, M

You should respect the young. You can talk about it more. But if she doesn't then it is up to you. You can talk about adoption. See what her answer is. If I were healthy and I were dating this one girl I would marry this one girl. She doesn't want to have kids, It's up to you.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@RobG22 What?🙄

RobG22 · 51-55, M

respest her wishes. Sorry the typo.

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Zonuss · 41-45, M

@Greybare Deep.

GlitterBug · 22-25, F

Yes, I don’t want children.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@GlitterBug Thanks.

jetpack

Not being able to have offspring is vastly different than not wanting them. Really two separate questions.
No, I would not commit to a long term relationship with a partner that did not want children. Our goals would be different

Platinum · M

Not sure, me and my wife never discussed kids before we married, we probably both thought it was natural progression to start a family...it turned out ok because we had four kids over the next 16 years...

Cannabro · 36-40, M

I would prefer it and pray they don’t want to adopt in the future because if she does I will have no choice but to submit to her wishes

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@Cannabro Interesting.

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

If they didn’t want children no. I always knew I wanted kids from when I was little. That would never be negotiable to me.

DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M

HeLL NOTz. I neeDZ offspinGz to carrYz my aeyraNz GeneZ

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@DonaldTrumpet 😂

DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M

@Zonuss

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Zonuss · 41-45, M

@MyParentsAreProud I wonder how your mom feels about having you .

RumorHasIt · F

At this point yes..

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RumorHasIt · F

Yes if they are fine with the ones I already have.. if not,then no

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@RumorHasIt What if you didn't have any. And you were about 30 years old.

RumorHasIt · F

I would find out what options they were open to exploring if they were physically unable to have children.. if the answer was just no they didn’t want them period under any circumstances I would probably end the relationship. @Zonuss