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My aunt yelled at me earlier today and I’m still hurt. She didn’t apologize! 😭😭😭😭

So today my aunt came over for a but and I went to hug her and she leaned back. So I tried again and she said, “NO HUGGING!!!” I backed off. I was like, “Oh yeah I forgot.”
She scold at me, “You need to be mindful of COVID 19. This shit is serious and you know we need to keep out distance. YOU GOTTA STOP THAT! I TOLD YOU ABOUT THAT!!!”
She shocked me. I said, “Auntie I’m sorry. I didn’t mean to I was trying to be sweet....”
I tried again and she scolded, “WHAT DID I JUST SAY!? STOP LAYLA! You need to STOP!” She didn’t have to yell at me. I’m still hurt about this morning. I told my cousin that his mom yelled at me. He said, “I know I was there. You know we need to keep our distance. I know it’s hard but you can’t just go up to people and hug, especially at this deadly pandemic.”
I was like, “Why didn’t you stand up for me when she yelled at me. She didn’t apologize for yelling at me.” He said, “She shouldn’t have screamed but she’s right. This virus is serious and we don’t know if we have it or not so you need to keep your distance, wear your mask and stand 6 feet away. You have a habit of not listening. When someone tells you to stop, STOP! Why should she apologize for being human? She is trying to be safe plus people her age are more prone to get sick from the virus. You need to listen and STOP. I shouldn’t have to back up for you.” Wow..... really?
I love her but I don’t wanna talk to her anymore because she yelled at me. I got yelled at by my neighbors for hugging too Sunday. She said I am stubborn for not listening and pushing people’s buttons. I cried to my dad but my dad backed up and said, “Nope don’t you come crying to me. You’re the one that isn’t listening. That’s what you get for not listening to people. Get out of here with that crying. Almost 18 years old!” Why is everyone so mean during COVID 19. We’re supposed to be nice and sweet.
Sorry that happened to you.🤗
@AutismGirl18 I know. It's ok. You just keep forgetting that's all. She shouldn't have yelled at like that.
AutismGirl18 · 18-21, F
@DaveStevenson I know. She has done it before and I cried. My sister told me to stand up for myself and don’t let our aunt yell at me like that. She said it doesn’t matter if she is family, don’t let her or anyone else talk to me like that.
@AutismGirl18 Right.
slenderboy · 18-21, M
Hugs are good. Hugs are wonderful. Unless I knew for sure that I had the virus I would hug anybody who would let me.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
It seems that people have told you several times. They want you to take it seriously that's all.
AutismGirl18 · 18-21, F
@REMsleep I do but they don’t have to yell at me. My dad said I need to take it seriously and they’re going to have to start yelling at me if I continue to not listen and not take it seriously.

 
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