I Have a Crush On Someone I Shouldn't

I have, to my surprise, been the object of such attraction from a coworker and some years later a friend of ours. The wereat the time like me, married. In both cases the attraction was admitted to me. Being that it was mutual one thing did lead to another, long term in the case of my married friend.

Despite the fact that I would come to find out her husband knew all along, I have been involved intimately with a coworker and also a friend without the terrible consequences each typically invoke on people's minds.

None the less, I recommend against both. I was lucky. Most are not.

No. 1 rule: Never get involved with someone you work with.

Fantasy won't hurt if you keep it where it belongs

It's ok to fantasise ;)