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What do you think of this?

I’ve known a person now for a few months and their behaviour is some of the worst I’ve seen:

- they never admit to any wrong doing and never say sorry. (only once when they were trying get me to talk again) they will make excuses why they weren’t wrong.
- they lie to get you to like them even though it will end up worse. In fact I think they enjoy lying in general. They will tell me what I want to hear for months and then let me down at the last minute. The few things they didn’t lie about they should have if they lied about everything else.
- extremely unreliable
- doesn’t seem to care at all but then others times it seems they do.
- two faced possibly
- uses people
- insincere
- cheater
- ignores messages for days
- poor hygiene (a bit)
- not very grown up for their age. They claimed they felt intimidated by ppl their own age. They are middle aged.
- they care for people in a physical sense just not emotionally.
- low self esteem
- lacks guilt.
- they can’t seem to grasp any wrong doing. They don’t equate someone being mean and angry towards them with their behaviour.
- they only adsorb information relevant to themselves.
- selfish
- don’t ask many questions
- they will try and use me for things but claim they were thinking of the benefit in it for me. They will only invite me places when there’s no one else to go with.

They have all this but yet they don’t like little things like swearing! They can treat a person like this but claim to dislike discrimination and all that stuff. Think that was just virtue signalling.

It’s so confusing and frustrating. I like their company but then they have these horrible vile traits.
Why are you even friends with this person? Don't you think you deserve to be surrounded yourself with better people?
Sassy55 · 41-45, F
It’s an unfortunate situation. :( can’t really say much.@quitwhendone
@Sassy55 So you are stuck with this person, in a sense?
SW-User
Look up ASPD
@SW-User Do you have ASPD? (No offense. I'm just asking.)
SW-User
@Sassy55 Not all of them will.

@quitwhendone Probably.
@SW-User That might be why you always have that angry, pissed, extremely annoyed look on your face. You need a good woman and some love.
KittenfromHell · 61-69, F
It's narcissism.
Sassy55 · 41-45, F
He spears to have low self esteem though. It’s really confusing. @KittenfromHell
Bushmanoz · 56-60, M
Listen to your instincts, what your heart tells you about the person, don't make excuses for peoples behaviour and you should be able to figure out just what will ultimately make you happier
Sassy55 · 41-45, F
@Bushmanoz their behaviour is beyond annoying. They also didn’t help to stop me being ostracised by someone. They made hardly any effort at all. They made a little bit of effort after they’d got what they wanted from me but that was it.

 
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