How do you know when somebody is your friend?

When they actually listen to me and don’t mind my reserved personality

They ask me about my life for once. And it's not just a "That's cool" they keep going. How magical

When there's comfy vibes between the two people

When you can ask them for nudes and they send them. Obviously.

If I ask you to come visit and you have to move my laundry pile to find a place to sit ... we're close.

They are there in the bad times and set some time aside to remember you exist.

I don't. I'm not good at being able to tell.

They let you be yourself

When they want to hang out with you and do nothing.