Are they still friends, even if they don't reach out to you?

Maybe they're busy with other things and never bothered to get out of their way to check up on me. Or maybe I'm not enough to be a friend for them. I don't know. I guess I'm not a good enough friend altogether.

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Wiseacre · F

If they don't reach out, they're acquaintances, not friends. Friendships take effort!

clampsin · 36-40, M

@Wiseacre You're right!

Wiseacre · F

@clampsin 👍️

Dewms

Yus of course. I understand we are busy and lead different lives, it doesnt mean friendship is gone

clampsin · 36-40, M

@Dewms I tend to think that way. But I can't help to also think that I may not even enough to be a friend.

SW-User

If people don't have time for me ,I don't find time for them

clampsin · 36-40, M

@SW-User Very true.

VolpeTredici · 31-35, M

Depends on the individual. There are some that I almost never even talk to, but I can call on them whenever, and they can do the same. I consider them friends, when I think of them 😅

clampsin · 36-40, M

@VolpeTredici That's good man. 👍️ Wish I have that authenticity.

AkAtSUki · F

If they really think you aren't good enough then they never were your friends to begin with.

clampsin · 36-40, M

@AkAtSUki Sucks to think that everyone got their favorites, one way or the other.

LyricalOne · F

Have you reached out to them?

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LyricalOne · F

@clampsin Then move on to new people, and if the old ones get in touch, let it be a pleasant surprise.

clampsin · 36-40, M

That's what I've been thinking. I thought maybe I need new people. Maybe the ones that actually care a little bit more at least.

LyricalOne · F

@clampsin Sounds good!

SW-User

I ask myself this occasionally. Some people need more attention than others.

I’m the worst. I want attention when I have none but want none when I have some.

clampsin · 36-40, M

@SW-User Yeah pretty much 😕

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