Why? Just why

Was having nachos for lunch and for once inside with. People. Noticed a man watching me. He was cute. I instantly got nervous. So my stupid ass decides to ignore and continue to eat. Went to put food in my mouth and it drops. Hits my boob. Slides down. hits my leg and slides on down. All the mixed salsa, sour cream. Guacamole etc. Damn you cheat day. I chance a look to see if he's still watching.
He had his hand covering his mouth and slight shake to shoulders. Pretty sure he saw 😖

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Neoerectus · M

That is when you make some humorous remark...

Bexsy

@Neoerectus you obviously don't know the brain that which is in my head. Which goes. Ok. We must cease to exist and shut off now lol

Neoerectus · M

@Bexsy When I was young, I was like that. Maybe I just don't give a chipmunk's arse any more...lol.

Truly, I remember the stronger the attraction, the more I would 'hide' or convince myself they'd never be interested. I have some really emarrassing stories about some situations I was oblivious to. As I aged (like moldy bread?), I realized it just wasn't worth the stress I was self inducing.

Humor is the savior. You are quick witted, so you could have joked about the obvious... "Have I got your attention, yet ?!?" or some such silliness. It doesn't have to go anywhere. Just enjoy the moment.

Easier said than done, I know. Start in little bits... baby steps.

Bexsy

@Neoerectus well. I'm not young. Guess with age come for me. Three times bitten. Offer hand no more

Neoerectus · M

@Bexsy Three times bitten. Yikes. I know you aren't young. but not ancient. Can't say as I blame you. Vast majority of divorced women I have met rarely got remarried. A few had long term relationships.

Even practically speaking, the mutual break-in/sand paper period can be daunting even in good relationships. So, I guess that leaves sailing and sky diving.

Bexsy

@Neoerectus married twice ( not 3 just to be clear) lol number 3 though gave my heart. He gave it back.

Thats enough trying for this gal. Sailing and skydiving. That sounds doable