i figured something out.

most of my issues can be summed up by saying "i don't feel important."

so instead of focusing all my attention on trying to find the deeper meanings i'm just going to remind myself that i don't feel important and keep it moving.

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DS1980 · 41-45, M

Or perhaps think of some reasons why you ARE important and focus on those.

looping · 18-21

@DS1980 i can't think of any. it's easier to accept my feelings and move on.

DS1980 · 41-45, M

@looping There are reasons. I don't know them because I don't know you, but there are.

Maybe not things that you recognise, but they are there to be found.

Just moving on will only be sustainable for so long. It is hard, but you need to value yourself. Hobbies? Friends? Family? Anyone you can work on it with?