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Why do some of the most intelligent, kind and attractive people get bullied?

I don't need a lecture like I'm a ding dong, just curious about different perspectives.

I was bullied hard as a kid. I'm kinda sick of hearing it's because I was too nice, or I didn't fight back... It ultimately wasn't about me really... I feel like that's just some shit bullies say.

I want to know why the bullies did it, without blaming the ones who get bullied.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
It's always someone who sticks out. Either considered too good looking (envy) or too bad looking ("omg, you offend my fragile sense of aesthetics"), too smart ("show off") or not that sharp ("we can get away with it, they won't defend themselves"), too proactive and ambitious (show off) or too asocial and distant ("that's suspicious, he/she must be creep").
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@CrazyMusicLover Agreed. But I still wonder how people make that call. What in their minds makes them want to hurt someone else.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@AlchemyFox I don't know either, I just guess that they want to demonstrate their power because they feel powerless and insecure in some aspect of their life. I believe that a person who is satisfied and at peace with themselves and the world around doesn't need to attack others.
BLP11520 · 61-69, M
I am was a small kid and got bullied. I was put in kindergarten at 4 and a half . So other kids were always bigger. You get picked on and you get called a pu@@y for not fighting back???
BLP11520 · 61-69, M
@AlchemyFox yes, I got bigger but it took years
BLP11520 · 61-69, M
BLP11520 · 61-69, M
238 pounds, back when I was lifting weights consistently
Good likelihood it was modeled for them at home, bullied by parent(s) themselves and/or watched them bully others. Bullies generally have poor self esteem and think they’ll feel like “more” by making someone else feel like “less.” And are often just downright angry and are looking for a punching bag.
BobbyMoeven · 51-55, M
I've only met one person in my life that confided that they were a bully as a child ...

It was a bit of a shock for her to relate , because she was such an intelligent ,soft spoken kind hearted person. She worked as a charity fundraiser ...

She admitted , when she was young , she hated anything pretty are docile ,, that she resented them , because she was the opposite , closed in and felt ugly inside and out , and lashed out ....She didn't come from a broken family , or abuse , she was a kid that felt not pretty inside and out ..
It is mostly because of jealousy, or they are bullied as well
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
Because of their kindness is likely why. Bullies seem to think that kind people won’t defend themselves.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@cherokeepatti but why do it at all?
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@AlchemyFox They are little insecure people who lack self-esteem. Their meanness and arrogance is a cover for that.
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AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@geoam1 it's just weird how we blame the ones who got bullied 😂
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mindless · M
Probably just for laughs and nice people are easy prey

I despise bullies, they are typically cowards
LifeIsShort · 31-35, M
They hurt other for their own amusement because bullies are evil pieces of 💩.
AshleeW · F
I get bullied a lot
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I feel like it’s jealousy. I got bullied so bad in grade 5 because I was the first girl to develop so the girls would pick on me. I hated it and it’s just continued.

It’s always rooted in jealousy.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@iamonfire696 How do they cross that line though? Like in your case, you absolutely couldn't help your body changing, even if they're jealous, why hurt you for it? That's the moment I don't understand. Why hurt someone?
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@AlchemyFox I don’t understand it either but when people see others getting attention and they are not that’s what happens.
MethDozer · M
Bullies bully what they can't or don't understand.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@MethDozer they need to understand a back hand
MethDozer · M
@AlchemyFox or a closed fist
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@MethDozer or a maul
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