Dont forget to love yourselfLove yourself, and don’t entertain anyone who doesn’t respect that. You deserve better
Less waiting, more livingToo much waiting, and not enough living. If you continue to ‘wait until you’re ready’ you’ll be waiting for the rest of your life
Dad’s wisdom? 🤔I was talking to my dad last night, and I was complaining about my roommates to him, and he told me this “ Before you criticize or judge someone’s beliefs or lifestyle Take a step back and revaluate yourself You’re not perfect sweetie, no one is...See More »
What is happiness to you ?For me I feel happy helping people. If I knew that though my trials to help them they may get hurt, I leave it all . It is no use helping someone and hurting them, Right ?
how to not care about the 'approval' of othersi want to be totally free of it and not care about the approval of others or not look for it? to some degree ive always cared about being approved by others and it maddens me because i want to be strong enough to not care if i get approved or...See More »
I'm learning how to give up on things that no longer serve meThis church group I'm in makes me upset and does not meet my needs. I've never been happy with any job I've had. I've always stayed at them too long, causing SO much stress, and anxiety. My immediate family (mom, dad, siblings) are fake and 90% of...See More »
Meaningful, mindful, great change.A big change is a chain of smaller changes. Every second counts. Use it with intent :)
Barbed Wire HeartI have been learning how to self-soothe a lot more recently. Not particularly because I've wanted to, but because situations have demanded it. I think that in my childhood, perhaps my mother was too responsive, so I grew up with a core belief that...See More »
A little self talkYou weren't too loud, you were happy and exicited and relaxed...you like to wear your emotions and share them. That's you. You didn't say anything weird, it's not your fault they laughed, you were being vulnerable and that makes some people feel...See More »
incomplete to be continuedLet go, they say, of the things that no longer serve you. Let go, they say, of the things that no longer comfort you. Let go, they say, of those who no longer understand you. In the process of letting go and giving up you may accidentally let go of...See More »
how to be more indifferent towards peoplei'd like to be more indifferent and not care at all what people do or say?
how to be good at verbal comebacks /retortswhen someone annoys me or makes me mad or insults me, in real life or online i can never think of a clever verbal comeback, my mind goes blank and i get really mad....why is that and how can i think of clever words to say back so i don't get so...See More »
Drifting thoughts of failureSometimes I think about my life and feel its quite a floaty drifty thing. Like I'm on a cloud surrounded by nothingness. That one day, I'm gonna die. When I do, every failure, every struggle and every lost friend that plagues me will disappear into...See More »
I noticed a habit I have is that even on a good day I’ll somehow fall into ruining it for myself.Like I’ll think “what a wonderful night. It’s so wonderful because I’m not thinking of A, B, C etc… “ and before I know it I’m upset bc I just thought of all the things that usually upset me and suddenly lost the joy I had started with… How to stop...See More »
if you forget something important what do you doi have ocd of my thoughts where i feel compelled to write down and remember or record all my thoughts and if i lose my train of thought or i lose thoughts, it upsets and torments me, and i try to chase my thoughts and remember them, i was told no one...See More »
"In order to do one's duty properly, to act properly, one has to have self-discipline, one has to orient one's life so as to do the best thing"In order to do one's duty properly, to act properly, one has to have self-discipline, one has to orient one's life so as to do the best thing."