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Do women in "abusive relationships" have themselves to blame?

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i mean thats like being in the same room with a shooter and u just dont leave, its like u asking for it
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Its only their fault if they stay once it starts and they do not reach out for help abd do not get out and the woman stays
@Manneeds abuse might be less bad than being on the street, separate from family.
@Roundandroundwego there is nothing less of or about abuse in any way it still happens with or being without family abuse still happens regardless and most abusers try abd seperate the womsn from family friends co-workers ext !
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@Roundandroundwego thete is nothing nonfatal about abuse because it always always ends up with the woman having broken bones blindness braindamage and dead at the hands of the abuser or abusers !!!
NinaCherry · 26-30, F
@Roundandroundwego "nobody can afford to move"
@NinaCherry seriously. If you share, you can be abused. No town anywhere is affordable to individuals.
A universal basic income and universal housing would stop a lot of abuse, and it might prevent most American men from getting near a snatch ever in this lifetime. Without the precarious financial situation, they're out of a sex life.
@Roundandroundwego ftom what it sounds like and yhe way your putting things you are one of the abusers very very sad. !
NinaCherry · 26-30, F
@Roundandroundwego yeah i wrote [i]if they can afford to leave and they dont[/i]. i know money can be an issue and thats scary, i guess one always has to save!
@Manneeds really? I'm an elderly homeless woman who has violent and addicted family with a place I used to live, here in town. But before I go home I will seek some advice and counseling. I'm being realistic - capitalism, USA, making her do it, apple pie and Chevrolet are the other team, as far as I'm concerned.
@Roundandroundwego i did not know you are or were a womsn your profile does not say that you are or were one
@Manneeds nope. It's not called Mother Hubbard anymore because all she gets is more abuse with a violent twist! Out in the streets, mom, no cupboards, the American version of thrown out victim - just saying. But if I had to say, the people who failed to kill me at home might be safer to be around than the outside world, but my safety is not something people are willing to accept. Security is when you bull doze our tents and war endlessly.
@Roundandroundwego understood this is why i believe in the woman being the dominants controlling running making men bow at their feet and havkng full complete control of and over men their home and relationships at all times
@Manneeds equality and the entitlements that free us all to at least lead authentic lives certainly won't satisfy the sadist. American people can never admit that entitlements are essential or that peace is possible. Too suicidal on my behalf.
@Roundandroundwego if women ran snd controlled this eorld and men were made to bow at the womans feet this eorod would be alot better place
@Manneeds okay, conservative women. We leftists don't expect to survive your side. WE don't try to make you understand. You win. Nobody thinks we'll survive NATO,- it's not even at war and it wouldn't admit it.
It certainly gratified me to see the elderly dead in the car so far this parking in the vehicle where you live year. Go Americans. Die at work, in the cars - younger - you earned it. You win!!!!
@Roundandroundwego it does not matter if your conservitive or demosewerrat that has nothing to do with things !and to be honest women will and woukd make it where men will not and would not make it because lets be honest all problems in this world is because of all of us men
@Manneeds conservatives politics is misogynistic. Leftists are the only ones trying to free people from abusive roles. So really, moderate and right wing it is for you! I'm loving it for you. Abuse it must be. And no escape! No left for you.
@Roundandroundwego no its the leftests that are causing the division they are causing things they are making things happen they are causing the hate they are and have opened the borders the fight is trying to stop it all but they cannot do thus with everyone voting demosewerrat
@Manneeds okay. But leftist politics opposes fascist politics, and adults who only know how to fight seem to be everywhere, with your incoherent non political non solutions. Dangerous. Reckless and very conservative.
Leftist politics is for human rights, even if hateful conservative people want to have wars at the borders. Everyone knows that.
@Roundandroundwego keep thinking that because you leftests are and have been yelling about aatacking the right in resturants store bars they sre the ones definding the police the military they believe in and are trying to legalize murder they are for men abusing women your the ones that are dangerous
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@Manneeds whatever. Nobody can stop the USA or NATO. Nobody can argue our way out of such wealth and might.
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NinaCherry · 26-30, F
@Roundandroundwego how did the abusive rtlship topic went to NATO? 😐
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