I have a guy bestfriend. However we try to create distance when we had our partners. Tbh sometimes, maybe we may become a good couple, since we've been bestfriends for too long and we have had our shared stories. But when I thought how beautiful our friendship is, I wouldn't want to take it unto the next level. I'm pretty confident as well that we didn't have or had a feeling for each other.
One time, I remember we had a talk if we can be friends with benefits. Then we ask ourselves, do we love each other? Of course we love each other in a platonic way, but not a romantic way. Please note we didn't do anything. And things stay the same.