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My grandson started seeing a therapist a few months ago.

He’s just now 12 and has some issues to work on. Nothing horrible, he’s angry because he has a mom who’s never been his mother and now a brother who she actually cares about. He’s angry for other reasons too, things that I knew he would find in his life one day and I told his dad we needed to do something now rather than later.

So he goes to this therapist who admits he himself has anger issues. He told my grandson this fun story…
One day on the way into work there was an erratic driver. One of those that hop in and out of traffic at high speed to get to where they are going. So, because this made the therapist angry he followed him. He followed him all the way to his destination, which was the erratic drivers place of work. The therapist went in and confronted him and this mans boss to let him know what a horrible driver he was and let his boss know it would be the right thing to do to fire him.
How unhinged is that??!!

I told his dad he needed a new therapist, but, this is the only child therapist in my town that takes insurance and has openings.

One day I got to go into therapy with the kid because his dad had to work.
He’s asking the kid questions, and the kid doesn’t really like this guy, doesn’t trust this guy and wont answer the questions. So I egg the kid along, I try to make him comfortable. I get him to talk a little bit. I answer the questions the therapist asks me about him. In this time the therapist let him know that he was wasting the therapists time and was so … angry really..by the time we left he was almost seething. At what?? No idea… understand why he has openings now.
The kid will never go back there.
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when I was 12 I couldnt even spell therapist, let alone go to one. 🙄
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@NoThanksLeon lol. I could have spelled therapist at 12 but it’s phonetic and I was a phonetic speller.
I should have seen one at 12. But someone would have had to notice and also care. I notice and I care so much it hurts.


I suspect he was sexually molested by one of his mom’s lovers when he was quite small based on his behavior at the time but there wasn’t enough evidence to get anyone to act on my suspicion.

He used to beg his dad to not let his mom take him because his dad loves him.

Her first husband would smack him arround if he had mismatched socks on.
His mom only ever wanted time with him if she had someone to show him off to. When she was done with him she would leave him with whomever was around to return him home.
If I send him to her house with money she spends it. If he gets birthday or Christmas money from her family, it’s hers.
These are the few things I’ve learned from her friends and people who interacted with him while he was on her custody.
When he was 3 he started crying and begging me to not leave him in the car after a long weekend with his mother. This went on for months.
Oh and she loves to call the cops on his dad for fun. One of the times it was after she beat on my son, biting and hitting him. Thankfully the officer saw the bite marks and arrested her. But nothing came of it.
She’s finally lost custody and has given up her parental rights to him. But since she’s had a baby she’s decided she wants to be his mom again.

He refuses to talk about the time he spends with his mom. He won’t even share simple things such as watching a movie.

I know there are kids with harder, worse lives. He needs therapy.