anybody else have a hard time seeing what other see in them romantically?

On paper, yeah I understand I have value but still...just she's so amazing and probably is too good for me. She looks like a fashion model. My god she is effortlessly beautiful. She's always happy to be around me and never asks me for anything. She just wants to be near me but idk it feels too good to be true. Like reality is just going to hit me in the face. People always end up leaving me...I know this is probably some childhood trauma of being kicked out of my home as a teenager. However She knows so much about me. Things very few people know and yet she still smiles with her eyes when looking at me. It gives me warmth that I can accomplish so much more. Sometimes I want to hug her so hard and never let go but I know I can't keep a bird stuck in a cage. I hope I'm not holding her back.

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Iwillwait · M Best Comment

Just Breathe, and roll with the Blessing God is giving you.

empanadas · 31-35, M

@Iwillwait thank you, she's truly a blessing

Iwillwait · M

@empanadas You're so very welcome. Thank you for Best Comment.

BeefySenpie · M

I’m not going to lie. Sometimes things don’t last forever, but you don’t know what might, if you don’t try. Enjoy the moments with her and don’t second guess her intentions.

Ashly · 26-30, F

You can’t help who you fall in love with.
Sometimes they can be a goddess, model or someone completely out of your league
Or someone who’s average in society’s standards, but to you they’re the one
Attraction is more that just looks, it’s the way they smile, talk , present themselves. That feeling of nervousness that they can create within you that no one else can.

She’s in love with you, that’s pretty clear to me. Don’t let past trauma ruin future treasures ♥️

empanadas · 31-35, M

@Ashly thank you so much 🙏🏽 she is a genuine jewel. Looks wise, I see myself as average but she looks at me like I'm the jewel. Just feels like I'm in a dream when I'm with her. I'm really lucky she feels the way she does towards me

sstronaut

She enjoys how much you enjoy her big booty!

(Assuming she has a big booty)

empanadas · 31-35, M

@sstronaut she doesn't have a big booty. She's slim like a fashion model but I get it

sstronaut

@empanadas This is not directed at her, I know nothing about her (other than her lack of a big booty), but just an in general warning of when things seem to be too good to be true.

Watch out for gold diggers and manipulators.

Again, not directed to her, but an in general statement for when things seem to be too good to be true.

But sometimes, unbelievable things do actually happen.

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

I feel this way all the time.

You deserve to be happy and to be treated this way by a woman. I know you make her feel the same way so it’s no surprise she loves you. You’re a total catch, just don’t let those intrusive thoughts about your insecurities ruin this for you.

empanadas · 31-35, M

@iamonfire696 thank you so much! I honestly see myself as average in all possible ways. I think that's why I'm usually taken for granted in relationships. I definitely have to see a therapist for that.

For you, very few people here can say you have a spiteful soul. Don't doubt yourself

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@empanadas you should go to therapy, it’s helpful and there is nothing wrong with it.

Thank you for saying that 🩷

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