What do you wish people knew about you?

The plight of a generous soul. You give and give and listen and listen, but it often is one-way. Can be hard sometimes.

How hard it is for me to ask for help. People always compliment me on my strength, but if they only knew how severely tired I’ve become doing everything myself.

Everyone thinks I am strong but in reality I am just to stubborn to ask for help.😒

When I go quiet is the time that I need support the most.

I can't find the words to reach out and ask for help - and I struggle to answer questions like "How are you???" but I can often hold down a conversation when it has a direction.

I'm happy with people not knowing anything about me.
As long as I know me.
My interactions with other people do not come from a hope of something in return. I used to look for my needs to be met externally at one point in my life. And there was an element of pleasing people in how I engaged with them. It always left me somehow feeling let down and betrayed.
Because I was not true to myself and my needs. Because I didn't even know what they were, not really. I thought all that came from outside of me.

Nothing because that's when they see my weakness and use it against me.

The less they know the better because you can’t trust anyone with anything. I get what you are saying though. I have to remain stoic because I’d crumble and fall apart from lack of love, affection, and comfort if I didn’t.

I tend to be the same way. It can be very hard to be everyone's rock when you stand on quicksand. You can be strong as steel, but even the strongest steel can break if it's not forged with care.

how very hard it is to wake up to the same groundhog day daily grind, when i contain multitudes, fever dreams, acid trips, and daisies...that those things can't JUST BE revealed..they have to be ACTIVATED

That my bluntness and honesty is meant to be helpful.

Nothing.

People will know and think regardless.

That my tourettes is real and I can't control it

Most, on this site, know that I am alone.

Few here, where I am, even want to know. It's like being a shadow, which is most often ignored.

I do go out most nights. Tonight it was Micky D's.

I'm not sure. I wonder if people knowing me better would be better or worse for me. Or whether it would make any difference at all.

I’m a bit like you, if I have problems or hurt I tend to internalise rather than seek help or advice. I trust few but I’m getting better.

I have too much pride for my own good.

I don't know how to ask for help when I need it. I always tend do always just do it.

I may not always have an answer or a clue on fix it. But I'll figure it out on my own without asking for help.

Say a modern car breaks down and I don't know to fix it. I will rebuild it to work like its from the 1960s-1980s cars. I will rip out all that modern junk and make it run on the basics.

You don't need all that useless bullshit for a car to work. I done this for a long time

And I'll do it all by myself

That I'm really, truly, shallow and selfish and vain and an awful friend.

And sometimes It's hard to explain it all - Because I'm lazy too.

But thanks for asking 👍

Just because I've been to outer space doesn't mean I'm comfortable with everything

Just because you can see right through me doesn’t mean you know who I used to be 👻

That I'm really only 5'11

I like British comedy.

Don't really think about it to be honest

Literally 100% the same for me

That I'm actually caring and kind

I don't even know myself anymore

I take things slow

How to love me

I wish that peopleknew that I was an alcohloic because I care, and that I am gay.

That I'm here for you. Just ask.

That I'm actually an intelligent guy, or at least I think so. Just because I'm handsome, doesn't mean I'm the equivalent to a male "dumb Blonde." 😎

The reserve, the distance isn’t arrogance—it’s shyness.

What my life has been

Exactly! Thank you very much 😊

I got dropped on the head as a kid and I ran to the side of the table hitting my head when I was 7. I have never been the same again. It is why I am the way I am