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Do you feel comfortable sharing your age? When people ask you do you tell them or lie?

Poll - Total Votes: 81
I lie about my age don't feel comfortable sharing it
I dont mind I tell my age
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I usually tell them 20 years older so they can tell me how good I look for my age.

Hey, denial ain’t just a river in Egypt.
@iamonfire696 Makes me happy to hear that, thank you. 🙂
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@OlderSometimesWiser I am glad, I just wanted you to know that. Have a nice Friday 🩷
Iwillwait · M
@OlderSometimesWiser What is it?
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Read an article in a trade magazine recently that said when sending a c:v's to employers obviously keep it brief; gear it to the job description and if you're over 50, under no circumstances put your dob or age.

Same was suggested for marital status.

Companies should read and select for interview based on relevant data.
Not feed any implied hiring policy based on age or marital or parental status as that's discrimination.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
@Longpatrol But it illustrates the point though doesn't it ?
Longpatrol · 31-35, M
Longpatrol · 31-35, M
@Picklebobble2 I just hate that it exists. As long as people can still contribute why prevent them from doing so? It can't be all cold dollars and cents calculation, they should look at the human being behind the CV.
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
I don’t mind telling people my age....I’ll be 69 years old in a few days.
@DragonFruit And you look awesome, my friend ! 🤗
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
@bijouxbroussard Thank you.
Longpatrol · 31-35, M
FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F
No need to lie , it is what it is
Degbeme · 70-79, M
I`m proud I`ve made it this far.
ImpeccablyImperfect · 51-55, F
I tell the truth
when someone asks my age my first answer is "guess"...they usually guess younger than my actual age... 🙂
@beermeplease I don’t do that now that I’ve let my hair turn white; it’s asking to get my feelings hurt. 🤭
@bijouxbroussard i've got quite a few grey hairs...but i have a "youngish" face...but ya know what?... i don't know what you look like but i know you have a heart of gold....and that surpasses any physical attribute as we get older 🤗
Why is it anyone's business? It is a number. I am often guessed as younger. It is my number. The number of years on earth.
of course, I'm like a fine wine. getting better every year and most can't afford me
I'm [i]proud[/i] of my age. I can't believe I've lived this long, with so many close brushes with death.
@MarkPaul "coming in for interrogation." 😂

Yes, I see what you mean. To help clarify; I'm proud of the station at which I've arrived resulting from my experiences over time. It has more to do with the growth of my being-ness within a time continuum. To say, "I'm proud of my age," is really a misnomer. But I need to put it in terms other people are familiar with. So, I say, I'm proud of my age.

So many concepts are expressed poetically and through figures of speech. For example; when someone says, "turn off the kettle," you learn from observation the connotation of what that means: Turn off the heat source heating the contents of the kettle. There's no mechanism in the kettle to turn off. And yet, when someone says, turn off the kettle, there's no debate. You just know what that means.

I'm using, "I'm proud of my age," in the same way. Although, I understand the connotation to which I'm referring is much less familiar than those commonly used, such as, "turn off the kettle."

There are [i]universally[/i] common connotations and figures of speech on which [i]everyone[/i] agrees.

All people agree the Sun rises in the East and sets in the West. That's very poetic. The [b]de[/b]notative understanding (from a physics and astronomical point of view) is; people are positioned at points on the Earth. The Earth is constantly rotating on its axis. As the Earth rotates, it brings you around to face the Sun, and, as it continues its rotation, takes you away from it. So, it's not really the [i]Sun[/i] that's rising and setting, it's YOU. But, unless people understand it in those terms, for me to tell people the Sun doesn't [i]really[/i] rise in the East and set in the West, would naturally lead them to thinking I'm a mental case.

So. In [i]connotative[/i] terms, yes, I'm proud of my age, which has to do with where I am with myself which has developed over time - not how many times the Earth has orbited the Sun since I started my Earthly journey.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@PhoenixPhail 🧐... 🧐... 🧐 Okay... okay. You're free to go. Your permanent record won't indicate this "session" took place, but just remember there won't be any monkey business allowed... not on my watch, Mister. Not on my watch. 🚪
@MarkPaul Well. Thank you for releasing me from your bondage. I feel like I just got paroled. 😂
ArtieKat · M
I'm comfortable in my skin. I was told a few days ago, by friends I've known for more than 15 years, that I look about 15 years younger than my biological age.
OliRos · 18-21, F
@Longpatrol Are you suggest that @ArtieKat is your dear papa?
Longpatrol · 31-35, M
@OliRos @ArtieKat Dada? 🫃
OliRos · 18-21, F
@Longpatrol Certainly, insofar as @ArtieKat is satirical and nonsensical - and almost old enough to have his roots in the horrors of the First World War.

(Thank you, Jimmy Wales.)
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
I don’t mind, it shocks everyone.
HumanEarth · 56-60, M
I tell everyone I'm 84
OliRos · 18-21, F
I never lied about my age, though I have implied that I am older.

Now, I am comfortable with the actuality.

No doubt, time will come when I start to imply that I am younger.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
People usually guess younger... I get angry... and all hell breaks loose. I'm not a kid, you know. Damn it.
slorollin · 41-45, M
I tell people my age. I'm 42 and just tickled to death I've made it this far! Been a few close calls 😂😂
accidentprone · 22-25, M
I never tell my real age because I do not want my information to be tracked.
Sometimes I share, usually more evasive than outright lying. For instance, I'm more forthright with people older than me. No way going to clue current or prospective employers on the reality.

Another reason I'm evasive is because I feel bad for people who look their age (so to say) or older and find out I'm actually older than them (most guess me 10 years younger than I am), if that makes sense.
Lostpoet · M
I don't lie about my age, but i'm also not happy with it.
Blake10Exe · M
I tell them if I trust the a littleee. But not if they randomly ask lol
Bleak · 36-40, F
I feel no shame in sharing my age. But some hardly believe me.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
Never in my life have I seen any point to lying about my age.
RenFur · 70-79, M
LOL - there's no reason to lie. I'm old and I sure as hell look it!
Mooed78 · F
I dont mind sharing..most people think I am much younger than I am..
bowman81 · M
Not at all, I'm am very precocious 12 year old. 🤣
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
I have no problem even given my birthday. Never did.
Wiseacre · F
I tell ppl I'm in my 60s, which is true.
Louis54 · 61-69, M
Sure. You may have half of mine.
sunsporter1649 · 70-79, M
I’m 35…..plus shipping and handling
DS1980 · 41-45, M
@DarlingSelah It's just a number. I don't care 🤷 ☺️
Fluffybull · F
The only people who ask my age are eg banks, car insurance etc as part of security process so of course I tell the truth.
accidentprone · 22-25, M
@Fluffybull So I am guessing now that you are an illegal entering our counrty
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Wiseacre · F
@Fluffybull right, the Brits don't share their age
darkmere1983 · 46-50, M
i'm proud of my age.
It isn’t a big deal for me
Musicman · 61-69, M
I don't mind at all. I am 62. 🙂
BeepBeep · F
i let them guess
craig7 · 70-79, M
If asked,I give it.When I was much younger,I would sometimes ask people to guess if they asked - invariably I would get a younger age in response; probably their being careful not to offend by picking a higher number.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
When I was in my 20s, I couldn’t understand why anyone would lie about their age. Now in my 30s, I wanna be in my 20s again. I won’t do the lie but waaaaah
I will be honest about my age and hope they will do the same. But if they judge me on my age, the conversation is done
WillieT · 61-69, M
Yeah, I'm old. Still have a good mind, though, I still have fond memories of the pet dinosaur I had as a kid.
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
I'm young enough to think I can, old enough to know better and silly enough to do it anyway.
scorpiolovedeep · 46-50, M
This is an issue for people in younger age groups.

Absolutely no problem in telling my age.
LifeIsShort · 31-35, M
I wouldn't say it wasn't hard the year I turned 30.

Same thing would happen at 40 probably.
Nah I don't care, I feel good that's all that really matters
Iwillwait · M
I totally just give a decade. I am in my blah-biddy-blah-blah.
smiler2012 · 56-60
[@chrisprincess] 🤷‍♂️yes i tell people how old i am i am not ashamed by this wht should you
Why lie unless you have something to hide
Yes, though people struggle to believe it...
Really · 80-89, M
[quote]Do you feel comfortable sharing your age?[/quote]Sure. How much will you take?
21... with 24 years experience

 
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