Uggh why do guys do this, especially this guy.

A new guy in my life seemed super interested in me. I didn't get the vibe from him of sucking up to take advantage of me. He went on and on about me. Said he felt like he was falling for me. He doesn't have it all together in his life, but neither do I. He seemed somewhat insecure about his life. I think he's at the age where you're transitioning from party days, to more family time. He seemed to enjoy talking to me and really appreciated some feedback I gave him. But he hasn't talked to me for a few days. Won't respond to any of my texts. It's so weird because I felt a mutual likeness towards each other.

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mindlessdrifter · M

For myself, a relationship change can cause anxiety and frustration. He is rushing into love and he feels it's not reciprocated, so he is probably embarrassed too. When you get the chance talk to him about your feelings and his, that way you can gauge each other's thoughts. Hope for the best

Elisbch · M

Maybe he's worried he's said too much and afraid things may go too fast? He's not ready maybe? You've already reached out (texted).
A few days isn't much...I would let him come to you. You can't control any of it anyway. He may need time to think. It's impossible to guess where someone's head is at.

Animalvan · 56-60, M

He may have taken something you said as being bad.

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