when you have nothing to offer anybody

[c=008099][i]what do you do when this is you?

when you have nothing to offer a woman, this is me, i am now middle aged ,aged 46 and i had a hard life with mental problems, ive never had an official girlfriend but i had quite a many flings with girls....but ive never been employed, never went to college....and now live on my own in a little apartment...the only support system i have are my elderly parents..

all i want is to find a girlfriend then my life would be complete, but when the realization dawns that you have nothing to offer except a 'good heart'? and you feel hopeless and feel getting a girlfriend will never happen.....what do you do?[/i][/c]