How did it feel when u got divorced ?

Were u sad , happy , frustrated , missing him or her straight after , thinking it was a mistake even thinking you will be lonely and alone for a long time after ?

What was your reaction ?
Did u do everything u can to safe your marraige ?

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CestManan · 46-50, F

Kind of sad leading up to it but once it was all said and done, I felt this sense of freedom that I never have before.

Like woke up one morning soon after and it was like that day was made JUST for me. :D

Save it? Our marriage had "run it's course". We both just gave up. Yeah there was the normal fighting leading up to divorce but to this day we have no hard feelings.

wudifu · 46-50, M

@CestManan thats the best....if you can still stay friends and have the decency to still chat and not affect the kids if there was any......good for you

CestManan · 46-50, F

@wudifu Our only child is 27 now.

The marriage had just run it's course basically. We wanted different things in life. There were no assets to fight over.

So really nothing to fight about.

I think a lot of messy and bitter divorces stem when there are assets and both parties get greedy.