How did it feel when u got divorced ?

Were u sad , happy , frustrated , missing him or her straight after , thinking it was a mistake even thinking you will be lonely and alone for a long time after ?

What was your reaction ?
Did u do everything u can to safe your marraige ?

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Starcrossed · 41-45, F

He refused and threatened to take everything and other nightmarish things.
I've imagined for years I'd feel sad but free and relieved.

wudifu · 46-50, M

@Starcrossed thats great.....but are u lonely and not having him around...doesnt it feel bad or thinking of him everyday

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

@wudifu I'm still married. We've worked out a lot of issues, but have a ways to go. I don't think we'll ever get to a place that either or us need or want so I guess that's still being worked out.

wudifu · 46-50, M

@Starcrossed whenever she talks i keep quiet and listens but as soon as i say something she doesnt like heating she gets up and walks out the room sometimes even swear at me.....i dont think i deserve this

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

@wudifu you don't deserve that. Is she open to counseling so you have a third party helping navigate a fair and balanced hard conversation.

wudifu · 46-50, M

@Starcrossed i havent asked her yet.....but i will the next time she isnt such a hard ass

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

@wudifu this sounds important to you, I hope you're able to articulate that to her. Everyone deserves to feel heard and validated, even if you don't find the resolution you want.

wudifu · 46-50, M

@Starcrossed i agree