How did it feel when u got divorced ?

Were u sad , happy , frustrated , missing him or her straight after , thinking it was a mistake even thinking you will be lonely and alone for a long time after ?

What was your reaction ?
Did u do everything u can to safe your marraige ?

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Fairydust · F

It was the hardest thing I’ve gone through, i was all the emotions, happy, sad, scared, angry….

I tried for years to save it, just going round in circles, his behaviour would change for a short time and back to his old ways.

I couldn’t wait for it to be over, I joked I’d have a divorce party but when I got the final confirmation i literally cried for 3 days solid.

Probably the whole stress of it all coming out. It was also a relief.

wudifu · 46-50, M

@Fairydust i was thinking of it the other night while laying in bed after my wife says she cant be eith me anymore.....i had so many emotions going through me...i couldnt sleep...although i cant be any better than what i have been already....i help with everythi g and being the bread winner and i know she doesnt like me anymore and doesnt want to be with me either.....so i yold her she can do whatever she wants and makes her happy

Fairydust · F

@wudifu

I think if you can, try and work it out?

wudifu · 46-50, M

@Fairydust i have been trying......but these days its more fighting and arguements than anything.....and i can see she doesnt even enjoy seeing me anymore not even talking much to me anymore

Fairydust · F

@wudifu

Aw I’m sorry 😔 have you tried marriage counselling? divorce should always be the final option, if you can do it amicably less money, mine cost me thousands, Solicitors are so expensive 😏

wudifu · 46-50, M

@Fairydust thats a good option i was also thinking about it.....thank you