When you know breakup is imminent

@OlderSometimesWiser if I’m honest, the only reason I got a place with her is because of her poor financial status. 18 months ago. She has improved it significantly, but still I worry she’s going to struggle when I do leave. That has been weighing on my mind, she is a decent person just not the right one for me.

@ErecSchunn You’re no doubt in a tough position. What you did was kind, and it’s nice of you to worry about her. But of course I don’t have to tell you that ultimately you’re gonna have to do what’s best for you. Perhaps if you are stuck together for the next 11 months, you could use that time to reframe your relationship into an amicable, cordial friendship so that when the time does come to part ways, you’ll both feel better about the situation. And afterwards, you might end up not even wanting to cut ties completely, so you might check in to see how she’s doing from time to time. Maybe that would ease your mind right now.

@ErecSchunn Seems to me that you dont really want to leave or are afraid of leaving and are making excuses. So you paid for the bed. So what? Get another one or a few bails of hay.

@smileylovesgaming ok so who gets the bed?

@ErecSchunn well u could get bunk beds

@smileylovesgaming sounds fun, but both of us are too big to be climbing up on top.

@ErecSchunn She does.

@PinkMoon why?

@ErecSchunn The dumper gets the couch and the dumpee gets the bed.

@MrBrownstone i’m not happy. What other reasons are There? What an odd question.

@MrBrownstone I appreciate your input, but the attitude really isn’t needed. I get enough of that in my home life thank you.

@kutee and go pick up a nice cardboard box on my way to the alley I’m going to live in? That’s where the problem is.