Why is it with some things that they're enjoyable at the time of action but later when thinking about them aren't as enjoyable ?

@CrazyMusicLover that happens to me a lot as well.

@NerdyPotato I sometimes feel like some things literally come to me much later in a form of a dream in a very combined and not clearly recognizable form. A common theme for me are markets in some country I visited on a vacation where ripe fruits smell amazingly. I love that scenery and it always makes me want to go on a trip again but when I realize how much all the planning and traveling is a pain in the a**, especially with the prospect of doing it all alone, suddenly such a tiny fleeting moment doesn't seem to be worth it all. Especially when I experience it vividly in my dreams already.

@CrazyMusicLover I can relate. The planning (and exhaustion) is why I decided not to travel anymore. I'm grateful for the things I experienced on previous travels and I'm glad I did those, but seeing more isn't worth the hassle.

@NerdyPotato that's a good way to go. Always being present. Presence holds such power right ?

@being absolutely! The past and future are just collections of present moments.

@being Yes, we think it is going to be much more, then we are disappointed.

@Sojournersoul lowering expectations sounds like good 😊

@being Yes. Lol.

@SnailTeeth it's subjective but we're all being pushed the same things, like food, sexual items (clothes for example, makeup and so on), sex itself, drugs and alcohol even, are many times not as enjoyable when consumed.
We're absent minded and overdoing it I guess.

You're right too, it's subjective

@being You blew on a leaf and a pigeon flew away with it? That doesn't seem so bad 👀

@SW-User I'm saying, let it go..

@being sorry

@Lostpoet many things. Dating could be yes, sex, chips and similar foods, visiting tropical islands, whatever you know of this scheme of advertised goods

@Jenny1234 yes exactly 💯 we're building a false dream around

@Lilnonames HM this is a case where I'd like for SW to allow us to have 2 BC 😊