here's a hint if you want to pm me
if you send me a message asking me how i'm doing i will look at your profile. once i notice you have no post history especially if you aren't a "new" user don't even bother
on the other hand, if you're a regular here and we've had interactions, by all means chat me up.
on the other hand, if you're a regular here and we've had interactions, by all means chat me up.