When you always have to be the first to text….

I have a friend who gets upset if I don’t text every day. It’s a bit frustrating considering she never texts me first to see how I’m doing or to check in. If you actually care about someone, wouldn’t you want to reach out first sometimes? I love talking to her, but it would be nice if she took some initiative and texted first once in a while.

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WanderingThrough · 31-35, F Best Comment

Still? I know I should take my own advice here, but talk to her about it. She might not realise she’s doing it or maybe she’s in a bad place. She’s blessed to have an amazing friend like you, Hann.

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WanderingThrough · 31-35, F

@InvisibleGirl Remember to respond to her with kindness. We never truly know how others are feeling. ❤️

InvisibleGirl · 18-21, F

@WanderingThrough I will do my best! ☺️ Thank you, love you!

WanderingThrough · 31-35, F

@InvisibleGirl Love you, Peach.

DecafD

Exactly- a relationship works both ways. I had one friend that used to do this so it finally took her 3 months to feel comfortable reaching out to me first and now no more problem.

InvisibleGirl · 18-21, F

@DecafD That’s great. I hope that my friend starts to feel that way. ☺️

DecafD

@InvisibleGirl she will if you don’t text long enough and she starts getting lonely

InvisibleGirl · 18-21, F

@DecafD That’s true, it might make her understand.

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