Would you invite your older kids boyfriends and girlfriends into your home and tell them to make themselves at home?

And not to shy away from getting themselves a drink or something to eat? What would you do? My daughters boyfriend sometimes cooks us some really delicious suppers, my son has a new girlfriend she's shy, I'm encouraging her to come out of her shell and to make herself comfortable.

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RubySoo · 56-60, F

A steady, long term boyfriend or girlfriend...sure!

BritishFailedAesthetic · M

Sure, but they wouldn't be staying round for the night. Thankfully my wife is Zambian and they have that philosophy anyway.

You know, as per God's word.

iamnikki · 31-35, F

No, because I think it's odd.

But that's because that sort of thing wasn't allowed when I was growing up.
Couldn't even talk to a boy on the phone

SunshineGirl · 36-40, F

Yes! Helps us to communicate properly and keep a tab on things. He's not allowed in her bedroom, but that is her rule rather than ours 🙂

OldBrit · 61-69, M

If it is a clearly long term relationship then yes

SW-User

Something without a lot of toxicity, where both parties are happy, I would stand behind that

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