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Have You Ever ......

As an adult, had a profound realization about your own parents that made your childhood make sense?

Example -

my mom Now retired, reached a Highly respected level in her field.... flash forward 7 years and is diagnosed with cervical cancer and she thinks that being 5-10 min late to the last doctor appointment slot of the day is ok, they will let it slide, because she is highly respected

this goes on every weekday for a month straight during radiation treatments, they Finally call her on it,

flash forward 3 months, she starts chemo, it's
after effects Supposedly wreck her, 15/10 pain, which I believe at the start
chemo=poison, that tries to kill the cancer before either of them kill you

preface- I live on the same property as her.
For the last 2 months I have been checking up on her 4x per day, 7 day per week, to get food and take care of her groceries and meds.

then I think back to my Gen-X childhood
and cooking family meals at 8 or 10 years old
my 2 feet or 2 wheels taking me where I want to go, she only interacted with me, when she wanted to

now she's demanding I spend time with her on Her schedule

typing this has dragged on for hours, just going to leave this here, there might be a pt later
Those 5-10 minutes are reprieve for her. I'm sure you have imagined, or tried, but imagine having a doctor asking you to do what they think is best for you, while you know it's going to bring more pain. It's possible she is measuring what it is like for her and everyone she loves, if she is no longer with you.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
I’m sure deep down she is grateful for you checking on her and she loves you more than anything in the world. Some people just have a hard time showing it.
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