My boyfriend blocked me for not responding the way he wanted me to. I feel so hurt about it...

Vengabus · 36-40 Best Comment

Anyone who would block you like that isn’t worth your energy. Someone who loves you would want to talk things out with you.
At best hes trying to manipulate your feelings and actions and at worst that’s his awful way of dumping you.
Just my opinion of course, but you really don’t need him either way.
You’re a strong and competent young woman with her whole life ahead of her. Don’t slow down for losers.

LilPrincess · 41-45, F

Personally I would cut my losses and move on. I have been in a similar situation. I could never say or do anything right.

Gingerbreadspice · F

If he gives you the silent treatment then block him first on everything. Thats what I did to my guy friend. He learned his lesson eventually, I stopped talking to him for 8 months. He only eventually got through to me by calling me on a withheld number because I thought it was someone else. My friend was lucky but I would never let a boyfriend treat me like that and it’s sad that you let a boyfriend treat you like that.

Camelia · F

Your boyfriend seems to only be your boyfriend when it's convenient for him, which implies that if things don't go his way, he will ignore you and your emotions. You will have to make some important choices about whether or not you wish to keep dating him.

mindlessdrifter · M

You should at least show up, maybe this was an error on his part. He really should explain himself

Mudkip · 31-35, M

Sounds like he's acting like a man child. A grown man should be able to communicate why he did that in the first place if he's in a committed relationship. The silent treatment is something kids usually grow out of. Not men lol, but best of luck to you

StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M

Was this to be your first in-person meeting? If so, there may be something about him he doesn’t want you to know

darkmere1983 · 46-50, M

unfortunately it sounds as though he's no longer interested and moved on, i think you should too.

Orca4950 · 70-79, M

Find a place where you can observe the meeting place but he casee you. See if he shows up at all. Then decide

Lilnonames · F

I'd leave him blocked and not show up you don't need someone likehim

Workerbee · 31-35, M

Hmm 🤔 if it were me I wouldn’t take that, I’d forget all about him nobody on planet earth is worth getting treated like that

NativePortlander1970

He gave You the silent treament before he blocked You, Get rid of that little punk. If You had been my daughter and I learned he was doing that to You, he'd be in the hospital in a full body cast using a feeding tube.

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