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Anyone else not feel at-home, whether it's your actual dwelling, or the city, state or country you live in?

I have lived in the same state my whole life.
There's not much to do here.
Even though it's where I'm from, it doesn't feel like home.

And that's just the best way I can put it
itsok · 31-35, F
I feel homesick, no matter where I’m at. It used to be worse.
itsok · 31-35, F
deadgerbil · 22-25
@itsok give me a list of what you want
itsok · 31-35, F
@deadgerbil
-exclusively talks in pms
-chocked full of fetishes

I think that’s about it. Lmk what you find
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Not since I moved back to the Adelaide area. I think the reason I didn't feel at home before was because I was treated like an outsider the entire time I was there.
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
@ShenaniganFoodie South Australia.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@Thevy29 where were you before?
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
@iamnikki Ceduna, South Australia on the Nullarbor plains. About a 9 hour drive away from were I am now.
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
I've never felt at home
@Lilliesandlight Hi :) I may i ask you something? Im looking for opinions :) but i dont want to ask it here as a replay that anyone can see coz some people might make fun of me. Would appreciate it if youll send me a message so i can replay you with my question (coz for some reason i can't message first). Thanx :)
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
More than anytime before. It's becoming unbearable. Unfortunately, it takes time to build home and I haven't even figured out where it could be.
@CrazyMusicLover Hi :) I may i ask you something? Im looking for opinions :) but i dont want to ask it here as a replay that anyone can see coz some people might make fun of me. Would appreciate it if youll send me a message so i can replay you with my question (coz for some reason i can't message first). Thanx :)
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@someonefromsomewhere1 As far as I know, I have no restrictions on who can message me so maybe it's good to ask admins why you can't message me first.
Matt85 · 36-40, M
Ah the spirit of domesticism. I can't smell it either.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
I think your intuition is telling you there’s something more in store for you elsewhere!
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@Jenny1234 @Jenny1234 I do also. Scared of making the wrong move and the "what ifs"
RenFur · 70-79, M
No. I was born, raised and lived most of my life within a geographical circle maybe 15 miles in diameter.
I feel very much at home.

Are you estranged from your parents, siblings, other relatives, classmates, workmates and/or friends?
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@RenFur I am not close to anyone in the family. The family itself is not close. We (aunts uncles cousins) see each other on Thanksgiving or Christmas, if that. My immediate family isn't close either. Big age gaps between myself and my siblings, they are close in age. They don't initiate outings with me. If I don't initiate, I won't see them. I've stopped initiating. I have no reason to be here.
RenFur · 70-79, M
@iamnikki

"Big age gaps between myself and my siblings" is MAJOR and I don't know why. I can say that because that is my case, too.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@RenFur Yea, it makes more sense as children, but as adults, it shouldn't matter, we are all adults. One has adult children, but I think I know what the issue is
metaldog · 51-55
I've never felt like I belong in the country I was born in
I dont consider here home although I spent most of my life here. I intend to go back to where I used tk stay before. Maybe sooner rather than later.
metaldog · 51-55
@DrScissorhands different country or just different area?
Carazaa · F
This world is not our home. Heaven is our home.
Carazaa · F
@jackieash [media=https://youtu.be/2zkVw2T-m3A]
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Musicman · 61-69, M
Is there any where you would like to go?
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
I've come to look at my home as just a residency location. I just have no particular good reason to move.
DDonde · 31-35, M
I understand it.

 
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