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Serious question: men settle this for us women..

Why is commenting on other womens photos so vital? Why do you need to do it? Why risk your favourite person's happiness over it?
Mirage · F
To me, it feels like a lack of commitment and faithfulness. Why spend the time ogling when they have you, right? Probably tied to ego.
It isn't about jealousy for most women, it's about disrespect and invalidating your feelings and what you have.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Mirage the last guy was a conundrum. I'm fairly attractive and hes never had a proper gf or even kissed with tongue before me. Still couldnt do what i wanted.
Melissa501 · 36-40, F
It's disrespectful but they dont care about our feelings.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Kenworth4954 they even go to the lengths of manipulation and gaslighting to still get away with it. The mind boggles completely.
Melissa501 · 36-40, F
@Kenworth4954 yeah i remember Randy. I liked him.
Kenworth4954 · 56-60, M
@Melissa501 yeah me too. Pretty sure he liked you too 😉
Carissimi · F
It’s good that they show themselves for who they are, someone not loyal to you. Isn’t it better to know this? At least you then have a choice to stick with him, or not, even if it’s upsetting.
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I don't know why they feel the need to. Maybe men need to give validation
Really · 80-89, M
@PaleandPolluted
trust me its the bane of relationships.
I don't trust anyone making such wild generalizations.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Really every single man ive ever complained about it to has picked commenting over my feelings
Really · 80-89, M
brian29715 · 46-50, M
Only positive comments. I was taught if you don’t have anything nice to say, then don’t say anything.
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PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@ShenaniganFoodie what about in situationships or flings? Its still bad to me. Some people get really lucky with ppl who dont do it at all.
HumanEarth · 56-60, F
Man here with Female label (just for a few more days before I change it back to male)

Look I'm married and have been for a very long time now. For me personally to leave comments on another ladies photo.

I'm a wearer of womens clothing aka crossdresser. So 90% I'm commenting on the clothing and the ladies sense of style.

But I'm also not normal either.
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in10RjFox · M
That's why I never have a favourite. I savour and favour all ..
I guess they are thinking you won’t see.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Sojournersoul happened with nearly everybody. Other womens husbands are at it as well.
Mattypp · 56-60, M
I dont risk nothing doing so
biandlargeny · 56-60, M
Here's another question. Why are women so threatened? If a man comments on a friend's pic why is that a problem.?
biandlargeny · 56-60, M
@PaleandPolluted to be able to comment on a pic for it beauty or not is objective it doesn't mean he wants to cheat
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@biandlargeny some do it in the hope it will lead to more
biandlargeny · 56-60, M
@PaleandPolluted that's a definite probability
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
What is it that you find so offensive about these comments?
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Dolimyte one was better than anything he's said to me
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
@PaleandPolluted I see, that is uncalled for.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Dolimyte was before he met me, not sure how he remembers her
Gringo · 46-50, M
You talking here or on other socials?

Commenting on pics doesn’t mean I want to get in their panties.
brian29715 · 46-50, M
I’d start by asking the favorite person. They might not know it upsets anyone.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@brian29715 hes another person who values comments over the person they are messing around with. Wish i knew what the big deal was.
Mattypp · 56-60, M
It is uasly a nice thing to do
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Mattypp shouldn't put it above a relationship
Mattypp · 56-60, M
@PaleandPolluted well if i was in arelationship or with woman no
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PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Bang5luts the likes are fine on ordinary photos
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LilPrincess · 41-45, F
@PaleandPolluted me either. Not that it did him any good because he is miserable and alone now
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@LilPrincess so he should be. Every single bloke I've raised the issue with has chose commenting from what i remember.
Kenworth4954 · 56-60, M
@LilPrincess yeah not a very nice thing for a commited guy to be doing.
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