Venting about work drama
Just want to vent a bit and get it off my chest.
Idk if im just being hormonal and overly emotional expecially being 8 month pregnant but i feel really down.
I moved to a whole new country and was excited to meet new people and make new friends since all my family and friends were back home. After about a year of working ive opened myself up and got hurt. Had a boss who acted like she was a friend overwork me while i was pregnant and ignored my risk assessments and had to spend 4 days in hospital for bleeding because i was straining at work when i wasnt supposed to be straining. She ignored my light duty requirements until i had no choice but report her, then 2 others essentially create a big drama situation for me (maybe unintentionally) by reporting to that manager (who pretends to be everyones friend) that i participated in spreading a rumour (which they said was a form of bullying) by telling them what i heard about the reason why another member of staff who hasnt been seen or heard of in a month maybe out of work. So now i look like a bully. She even said the big boss knows and hes related to that member of staff thats been off work!
Now im home on maternity leave and i go on my Facebook and see more drama from another coworker about coworkers not being your friends and all company isnt good company. I know its a subliminal comment but it was hurtful to me knowing i actually tried making friends here and said that many times to everyone i worked with that all my friends are back home and they were like my friends now.
I guess i should just not be so open and be more guarded. I feel stupid and i feel like a joke. I feel like because i reported my manager for overworking me while pregnant she used the bully angle against me in spite possibly
Idk if im just being hormonal and overly emotional expecially being 8 month pregnant but i feel really down.
I moved to a whole new country and was excited to meet new people and make new friends since all my family and friends were back home. After about a year of working ive opened myself up and got hurt. Had a boss who acted like she was a friend overwork me while i was pregnant and ignored my risk assessments and had to spend 4 days in hospital for bleeding because i was straining at work when i wasnt supposed to be straining. She ignored my light duty requirements until i had no choice but report her, then 2 others essentially create a big drama situation for me (maybe unintentionally) by reporting to that manager (who pretends to be everyones friend) that i participated in spreading a rumour (which they said was a form of bullying) by telling them what i heard about the reason why another member of staff who hasnt been seen or heard of in a month maybe out of work. So now i look like a bully. She even said the big boss knows and hes related to that member of staff thats been off work!
Now im home on maternity leave and i go on my Facebook and see more drama from another coworker about coworkers not being your friends and all company isnt good company. I know its a subliminal comment but it was hurtful to me knowing i actually tried making friends here and said that many times to everyone i worked with that all my friends are back home and they were like my friends now.
I guess i should just not be so open and be more guarded. I feel stupid and i feel like a joke. I feel like because i reported my manager for overworking me while pregnant she used the bully angle against me in spite possibly
