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Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
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Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
@akindheart sometimes it’s necessary to go over someone’s head.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Ambroseguy80 thanks to you for being the anchor here. it helped me think clearly
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
@akindheart so glad for you.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Quimliqer I did! and the boss believed me. He said he was seeing stuff too
Thomas52 · 70-79, M
I'm so glad that you're not allowing this to go by without challenge. I have experience of this sort of behaviour and until someone stands up to it, it just poisons the place.
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Pretzel · 61-69, M
file a harrassment complaint if possible through a government agency and document the abuse - especially the liar part.
LunarOrbit · 56-60, M
akindheart · 61-69, F
@LunarOrbit we are getting ready for the fight. if this little prick finds out i called someone he will be at me again at which point, i will walk out. leave them high and dry
braveheart21 · 61-69, M
braveheart21 · 61-69, M
We hope so love.. @akindheart
1pebbles · 56-60, F
@akindheart always welcome here
heavyone2 · 61-69, M
@akindheart Time to give em the "spring finger" and go....lol.
jackjjackson · 61-69, M
Has his car been keyed yet? If not, it’s overdue. @akindheart
akindheart · 61-69, F
@jackjjackson ha ha...i would rather strangle him.
jackjjackson · 61-69, M
Latex gloves @akindheart
jackjjackson · 61-69, M
akindheart · 61-69, F
@jackjjackson perfect!
jackjjackson · 61-69, M
TYVM @akindheart
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Crazywaterspring love you guys!!
I was a government employee for 30+ years. Two major points I learned among many, was in the real of written communication . 1. Be very careful how and what you put in words to paper. It can come back to haunt you. 2. If you are complimented, praised or thanked in written communication, always keep them. They come in handy should a superior be off base about your performance not realizing the “ ammunition “ you have to counter them.
@Crazywaterspring Are you federal
Or other? I was federal. Learned much in that time.
Or other? I was federal. Learned much in that time.
Crazywaterspring · 61-69, M
@soar2newhighs Fed. I retire in less than two months.
@Crazywaterspring If I may, what agency? I was forced out at 60. Too old to fight fires by Government standards.
Be very mindful of your retirement, be it FERS or CSRS.
Be very mindful of your retirement, be it FERS or CSRS.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
akindheart · 61-69, F
@iamonfire696 me too. the manager was blocking us from going to anyone else. total control
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@akindheart what a jerk!
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Quoththeraven it was my turn i guess. but it won't be again. thank you
@akindheart light em up
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Quoththeraven I will give you part 2 when it happens!
WillaKissing · 56-60
You handled both the client and the ass manager well. I always hated power tripping people that looked to cause drama to better their position. Err, and good for you to stand your ground.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@WillaKissing thank you sweetie!! i appreciate the kind words. i will keep you posted.
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Dainbramadge i have been very lucky too. i love my job and the guys I work for except this one
CassandraSissy · 26-30, TVIP
Well done, sweetie! People should a) get their facts straight and, b) stop acting abusive.
My workplace has been - mostly - fine over the years that I have worked there (a loooonnnggggg time!) and, being the token trans person, I remember a few incidents of sexism...and, well, I am not one to back down when I am pissed (ie, angry) so with each of these 'incidents' I have balled them out (Ie, again, argued in public......the UK term) , just making them know what is and what isn't acceptable. They had later apologised, I think.
Obviously, word gets around, and people either have your back so that newbies don't act like dicks or at least they keep their prejudices to themselves.
Keep up sticking to your guns. You're in the right...
Hope this idiot gets their just desserts..
😘
My workplace has been - mostly - fine over the years that I have worked there (a loooonnnggggg time!) and, being the token trans person, I remember a few incidents of sexism...and, well, I am not one to back down when I am pissed (ie, angry) so with each of these 'incidents' I have balled them out (Ie, again, argued in public......the UK term) , just making them know what is and what isn't acceptable. They had later apologised, I think.
Obviously, word gets around, and people either have your back so that newbies don't act like dicks or at least they keep their prejudices to themselves.
Keep up sticking to your guns. You're in the right...
Hope this idiot gets their just desserts..
😘
akindheart · 61-69, F
@CassandraSissy Thank you for your kind words. good for you for defending yourself. Work places has to realize that people have rights too. unfortunately where i live it is a right to fire state.
CassandraSissy · 26-30, TVIP
@akindheart Hugs, sweetie...
I just tend to find that calling them out in front of their mates/friends/colleagues for unacceptable behaviour works wonders...and, anyways, in your case it would all be inaccurate information from him in the first place.....that's grounds for unfair dismissal.
You in a union?
I just tend to find that calling them out in front of their mates/friends/colleagues for unacceptable behaviour works wonders...and, anyways, in your case it would all be inaccurate information from him in the first place.....that's grounds for unfair dismissal.
You in a union?
akindheart · 61-69, F
@CassandraSissy no i am not in a union. they are hard to get down here