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Have u ever been attracted to someone u knew was no good ? 🤔🤨

I'm guilty. I confess. I have been attracted and in relationships with women who were no good. Meaning they were dangerous. What about you. Have you ever been attracted to someone who you knew was no good or
no good for you. Or they were not right for you. What's your story.
Best answer wins.☺️❤️

Jeffrey53 · 51-55, M
I was in a relationship with my stalker. It was around 2001 I lost my fiancé early that year. There was a site called yahoo chat. I was chatting with people on there. Then this girl sent me a message on Yahoo Messenger. We started talking. She wanted to know about me. I didn’t tell her much about me. I just said “I lived in Las Vegas and I worked at a casino” there were tons of casinos in Las Vegas. I haven’t seen her on yahoo chat in few days. I didn’t think anything about it. A week later my boss called me on the radio said “there’s someone looking for you by the gondola’s” I went up to the canal shops I didn’t know what to say. Stuff ran through my mind at that point. Who is she and why she was looking for me. I was getting nervous. She came running to me and hugged me. I said “who are you” she gave me her screen name from yahoo. I said “how did you find me” she said “anyone can find a person if they wanted to” I was lonely and vulnerable at that time. Friends and family always told me she wasn’t good for you. I took a chance we dated for 6 years. The relationship ended by her cheating. I put my heart and soul into that relationship.
meggie · F
Yes once. He was a divorced man who seemed to flit between parties, the casino and horseracing, holidays, golf etc. I was unhappily married and there was an attraction between us for sure. Oneday a colleague who we both worked with told me the truth about him. He lived with his parents as he had huge gambling debts, owed everyone money, had another woman pregnant and was looking for his next meal ticket.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@meggie Wow. Sounds like a true gambler 😂
Yeah I was in that state of trance for a few years atleast, perfectly knowing he's no good for me but still carried out that feeling because I thought maybe ,maybe this time he will change.

But he didn't.So I just let it go.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@UnderstandMe People don't change.
KarenDuponteDurose · 46-50, F
Bad or just no good? Possibly. Dangerous? Yes, definitely. My partner and I had one of those relationships, back when we were younger. Highly strung - on both sides of the fence - and I just couldn't cope with her lifestyle choices and there was some jealousy issues on both sides....

She split us up. I was devastated. I later find that she was too. Years pass, almost a decade, and we bumped into each other again. Talked. Fell in love again. Older. Wiser. Not so hot headed and more accommodating to each other.

Married. Happily so. But I think we needed that break.

🤔
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@KarenDuponteDurose Interstate story there. Thanks for sharing.
Soldonmonday · 51-55, F
Yes. In fact not long ago. We were together 4 months when i found out he was also seeing one of my friends. I dumped him imediately.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Soldonmonday Wow. Not good at all.
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
I commented on a YouTube video that the way some girl acted was cute. I got responses for months from people letting me know that she's manipulative and I must like insane women. 😂
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@SinlessOnslaught Do you 🤔
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
@Zonuss Yeah I just ignored them. But they're probably right. I guess I should be a man and tell them that. 😆
Yes. And i even made good choices of saying so, but went unheard when shit hit the fan. Is why i 100% believe things are fixed.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@checkoutanytime Fixed.🙂
Poppies · 61-69, F
Indeed I have. Met him more than 45 years ago. Never see him but he is still one of the central figures of my life.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Poppies Really 🤔🙂
Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
For me, it was a stripper, it was fun for about a week, then I had to back out. It didn't take long to regain my senses.
Iwillwait · M
Always. Now I will not have the utterly useless aspect of drama in my life.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Iwillwait Amen.
SW-User
Yep but they seemed good for some time.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@SW-User Key word seemed.
SW-User
@Zonuss... 😐😐😐I also was just seeing the flattering bits
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
Nope. I am mega cautious. If the person doesn't jell the attraction has no sway.
QueenOfZaun · 26-30, F
Yes it’s caused me a lot of pain in my life. I’ve lost a lot
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@QueenOfZaun I'm sorry.
BlueRain · 51-55, F
Yes I married him and divorced him
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@BlueRain Good.
BlueRain · 51-55, F
@Zonuss he abused me
Wrong place. Wrong time.
Made it the wrong person too.

That happened.
TioCarlos · 31-35, M
I'm involved with one right now.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@TioCarlos Is that so. 🙂
Chelsiegirl · 46-50, T
Oh ya it happpens
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Chelsiegirl Yes more than we would like to admit.
Chelsiegirl · 46-50, T
@Zonuss ya
Yes, and I paid the price for it.
Not really. Bad people scare me
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
Yes. A few times
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
SW-User

 
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