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Do you believe in oppistites attract‽

[c=359E00] Or do you believe it has to be similar interests to attract‽ [/c] ➕ ➖🤔
[c=002673]or it doesn't matter‽[/c]
SW-User
They attract they marry then they divorce..
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@nightjourney I can only speak from experience.
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@nightjourney That has been over a long time. Better off now.
Opposites attract but not for long...somewhere down the road you both change and then it becomes even more distant to relate to each other.


Its always good to find someone who can understand you and share your interests...coz that is what a relationship does: it gives you more opportunities to do things together.
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@Vivaci I totally understand Viva. You're a beautiful soul who deserves that type of love.
We're not completely different from each other, but what I love the most are the different views we can share without either one of us getting upset.
My Father didn't like when people disagreed with him, and he'd tend to be rather harsh and not so nice when that happened.
@SW-User Awww....and likewise, Wion 😘

True! Since we’re all so different, it’s difficult to say what works for one might work for others too. Like for a sub, someone who’s demanding and harsh would be a turn-on...😅

You’re right, Wion...our little differences give us something to adjust, understand and learn from the other person... and it’s beautiful to be unique in that ways.
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@Vivaci 💯❗ 😘
A bit of both. My fiancée are very alike in the ways that give us something in common, but very different in the ways that matter to make us interested.
@nightjourney so do I. That’s why I’m gonna marry her. *giggles*
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@nightjourney ty. u 2. 🖤🤗

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Both happen.
I guess it'll need to be some sort of balance, similarities and differences
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@SW-User Exactly imo! It'd be so boring if you're exactly alike. Sometimes differences can be awesome!
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Coppercoil · M
I don't think it matters much. About energy and chemistry and physical attraction. Basically open hearts find reasons to justify what they already feel.
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Coppercoil · M
@nightjourney haha yes they can. Love makes people very adaptatable.
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I don't even know anymore
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@nightjourney giving attention and affection is what I'm good at lol
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Rutterman · 46-50, M
Can't speak for others, but I'm most attracted to people I share similar interests, values, and perspectives with.
Hubs and I are polar opposites and somehow we seem to work.
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@nightjourney That’s what everyone tells me.
In my experience, opposites attract for a temporary period but not for the duration.
Wiseacre · F
Opposites attract, but not for the long run. Core values must be shared.
No, I believe it's a combination of it all. Fighting over everything isn't worth it nor is someone who never disagrees with you. Must have some one who has proper communication with you and that you want to work to help accomplish each other's goals
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Honestly, I think it depends on a lot of variables. Some people need the continuity of a partner who sees the world as they do; maybe someone who shares their religion and culture. For some that’s especially important in terms of raising a family together.
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@nightjourney Yes, others can accept differences.
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I think similar interests attract more to each other. No one likes to be with someone that doesn’t agree with them on many issues.
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NotJamieM · 46-50, M
I've had both opposites and very similar go pretty well. I've also had both of those that didn't go so well, lol.
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Madmonk · M
I’ve had both to be honest. Both were excellent. Similar one though was really the best
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
Something attracts and it's going to be different for each one of us
jbon85 · 100+, M
People can be attracted to whomever fits their personality
Tminus6453 · M
Nope...been there done that
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Tminus6453 · M
@nightjourney Haha...oops... first part= nope

second part= yes
With electromagnetism. Sure.
No. I learned the hard way.
Works in magnets🥴
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Both actually
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MarkPaul · 26-30, M
Opposites makes it interesting. Polar opposites makes it toxic. Polar opposites for extended amount of time makes it deadly.
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MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@Stereoguy I won't do it. How much would you pay?
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
My husband & I differ often politically, religiously, musically, entertainment wise, etc but I’ve never felt a stronger connection to anyone else. I honestly think our love is stronger for all our differences. It’s not as easy to love people who don’t agree with what you think or like. I do think it’s made us both more open minded/ hearted.
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Coppercoil · M
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit that's more like it!
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@Mrsbetweenfatandfit 💯 I love this!
TheLordOfHell · 41-45
Yes, like-minded for I
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SW-User
If opposites attract, I wouldn't keep attracting crazies 🤔
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