A colleague of mine who's also my subordinate has sent me inappropriate emojis (kissing and the likes) few times. How do I put him in his place?

He's married, has a kid. Neither have I indulged in any sort of discussion with him other than work nor has he brought any topic up during our conversation. He sent the emojis over WhatsApp while complimenting my profile picture. I thought I was overreacting. Should I tell him anything?

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VodkaBec · 31-35, F

Sometimes the professional, direct and polite approach is the best in these situations. If it was me I would send him an email or text saying “please don’t send me the emojis, they make me feel uncomfortable, thank you” In these situations it’s also very important to create a paper trail including all evidence, you’d be surprised how these things can come back and bite you even if your not at fault.

TheIncredibleHulka · 31-35, F

@VodkaBec Thanks a bunch. I'll do that if he repeats.

VodkaBec · 31-35, F

@TheIncredibleHulka Of course you could always say “how’s the wife and kids, hope you’re taking care of them in this time of crisis!!!! 😄