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I've realized that some people return to me just because they want to feel reassurance.

Not because they care or feel sorry , but to feel better with themselves. For their ego.

I really rather avoid them.
I dont know your reasons for being here, but it sounds like these people add pressure to you> I say get rid of them, and then hopefully you will relax and enjoy your escape on here.
[@536386,Gaiia] real life?
Gaiia · F
[@446022,Bushmanoz] yeah like in my life, generally speaking
[@536386,Gaiia] you can even kick real life people out of your life if they dont add things to it
trackman11 · 56-60, M
You know your experience, but I do hope they really do care. Often caring about others and being too self centered are not mutually exclusive. Relationships of any kind can be confusing. Not arguing with you just hoping there is more there for you than you realize.
Gaiia · F
[@701587,trackman11] it's a good thought. Thank you
raysam363 · 31-35, F
Too many people in the world do this. The first one or two trick you, the rest you recognize.
Gaiia · F
[@960394,raysam363] true it takes experience as well
chuck7882 · 56-60, M
I feel that way too
Gaiia · F
[@701409,chuck7882] one learns to recognize them right?
chuck7882 · 56-60, M
[@536386,Gaiia] yes. And I always get mad at myself for letting them
Gaiia · F
[@701409,chuck7882] don't let them again 💛
ScarletMoonEmpire · 36-40, F
[c=#359E00]right, avoid them, ignore them. You deserve better[/c]
Gaiia · F
[@659125,Kiriko] mhm better to just don't waste one's time..
MellyMel22 · F
[i][c=#BF0080]You deserve much better than that ❤️❤️❤️[/c][/i]
Gaiia · F
[@1980,MellyMel22] 💛💛 💛 💛
Aardvark97 · 46-50, M
how many?
Gaiia · F
[@1007974,Aardvark97] not that many thankfully
Aardvark97 · 46-50, M
[@536386,Gaiia] Take it easy. Take it in stride. What exactly does coming back to you do for them? why did they leave in the first place?
JoeyFoxx · 51-55, M
People are complicated
Gaiia · F
[@327405,theoneyouwerewarnedabout] oh. 🤔👀👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀

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