Yes. I don't think we feel flawed until someone tells us what's "wrong" with us

I don't t think we see are imperfections as flaws until someone tells show undesirable it it or points out that it is wrong in some way. For example. when I was a child, I didn't see anything "wrong" with my nose at all until someone pointed out that it looked like a "pig nose." Now, I can't see anything but a pig nose when I look in the mirror. :/