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do you ever feel like you wish that you didn't have any walls you set up, like you wanted to be vulnerable at least for a moment ?

i really wanted to hug my brother, he just walked right past and didn't look at me .-. I truly feel pathetic
I actually think I've been too vulnerable. Need to possibly build walls instead. For me personally
wackidywack · 22-25
@Bexsy and we just do our best to keep our guards balanced being up or down. only human
SW-User
@Bexsy Same
SW-User
Mine are very high and I think that's better for me like that.
But from time to time I climb them
wackidywack · 22-25
@SW-User do you get over ?
go back and tell him you really want that hug
wackidywack · 22-25
@PepsiColaP I'm gonna do it. He needs it :(
@wackidywack im proud of u ure a good sibling
this. i have been feeling like i am stuck behind the walls i have built, and i want to come out but idk how.
wackidywack · 22-25
@deathfairy it's terrifying to come out too
NickiHijab · F
Can you be vulnerable outside of your family dynamics or is it the practice of being vulnerable itself that scares you?
I used to feel like I can't be vulnerable but I can. I'm just selective with it and that's ok.
wackidywack · 22-25
@NickiHijab literally anywhere except here. my walls are like fort knox
NickiHijab · F
@wackidywack I don't blame you. I avoid using SW as a diary most of the time because
1) Majority don't have the capacity to look beyond their own lens and when they do they let their unconscious biases steer the wheel.

2) I'm past the phase of needing validation from SW (although there's nothing wrong with wanting or needing it)

and 3) I'm accountable for my own shit and don't need unnecessary voices added to it unless I value someones life view and perspective.

Meanwhile I could tell a stranger anything and walk away happy as Larry. Try it, feels daunting at first but also liberating. It acts as a stepping stone that can eventually create a ripple effect in other parts of your life.
Viper · M
Yeah, I wish I didn't have so many walls up, but I also kind of need them, because I struggle to communicate in what people consider normal ways.

So the wall is to keep them comfortable, and make sure I don't make anyone nervous.
1Dogma · F
I think I love my walls...sturdy enough to shield me

hug him, don't hesitate while he's still alive and warm, siblings understand

I miss mine, he's cold and under the ground
Alisha233 · 31-35, F
Looks like you might have to start stealing hugs. If you creep up from behind then they can't see you coming. 🤗
SW-User
Hug him ..
Life is too short
wackidywack · 22-25
@SW-User i'm gonna go into his room just to do it :( I'm high key terrified
SW-User
@wackidywack just do it ...even if you're scared
wackidywack · 22-25
@SW-User I will 🙈 I tried to get in there but he was like talking to someone on the phone lol >. > I just left. I'll be back later
anoderod55 · 61-69, M
Say excuse me ! I'm standing here and need a hug 🤗🌹🦋
Lostpoet · M
Nope walls are up for a reason for me

 
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