@KristinaM Also WHY I don't care? I got woke about womens issues.

REALLY woke.... Internalized misogyny is rampant in our society and I for one...

I am over it. I'm not even mad I get why they go for these monsters society taught them thats all they deserved so thats what they went for.

now they're learning not to listen to those people and I want to be there for that.

@BetweenKittensandRiots I’m glad more people are becoming aware of the systemic misogyny. And you’re right about kids. Being a parent influences every choice you make for the foreseeable future. I’m happy with my choice, but I definitely understand the childless by choice people.

@KristinaM the thing that makes me a little bit hesitant to be like nah !!!@#$ single moms is that I might not want kids but if I were to spell out a personality type that tugs at heartstrings in a major way its the highly sensitive and highly empathic and the very nurturing types tend to want kids those two things [i][b]tend to march hand in hand.[/b][/i]

what made my life Fairy tale territory is I ended up with Someone [b]MOTHERLY[/b] but [i][b]not a mom.[/b][/i] [b]Someone who didn't mind.[/b]

It's honestly part of our role play. She relishes being there for me....

I ... tend to fall for the ones who are its the worst because being diposed to harbor romantic sentiments for those who are there for you has a way at times of destroying your social supports because quite often women are willing to be there but don't necessarily want to be pursued and it's like

I...

can't.

help.

it.

How can you blame me? Who would want to be with someone they couldn't confide in nad whats wrong with them?