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How do you stop yourself from getting turned on by things you shouldn’t ?

How do you stop getting turned on from like really really dirty things or kinks that you know are wrong,

And like it’s gone that I can’t even masturbate to normal stuff it has to be stuff that’s disgusting and idk how to stop
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FrogManSometimesLooksBothWays · M Best Comment
Keep your eyes wide shut! 😎

OpenlyHonestly · 31-35, F
Tone it down. Try to build a scene that's more acceptable. Don't feed that part of you and fill it with something that wouldn't make you feel bad about yourself.

Aaaanyway...look around at all us degenerates, that should make you feel better about yourself. 😂 It always helps me. No matter how bad it is, I remind myself that somewhere out there there are psychos who get off on even worse things than I do, don't feel a bit guilty about it and wouldn't hesitate a second to act on their fantasies if they had a chance. Just the fact that you feel bad about it shows that you are not a bad person inside. This world needs more people like you.
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OpenlyHonestly · 31-35, F
@Medoesnotcare Yes, that would be the worst. Those people should kill their thoughts completely. There is no excuse.
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Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@DemonicDelight something like that ig
Montanaman · M
@Medoesnotcare 😔🤗🤗

https://similarworlds.com/7787600-I-Write-Short-Stories/1815682-The-Mirror-Before-you-can-love-another-you-must
LeggyOldWench · 56-60, F
Just be yourself sweetie😘
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@LeggyOldWench thank you ❤️
LeggyOldWench · 56-60, F
@Medoesnotcare You are more than welcome💖
meat18 · 61-69, M
just curious. its been almost a year since you posted this and was wondering if youd figured out a way to stop.
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
I didn’t @meat18
meat18 · 61-69, M
@Medoesnotcare welcome to my world!
SW-User
You probably can't. You just don't feed it and act on it.
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@SW-User :(
SW-User
@Medoesnotcare Sorry. Stay away from or avoid whatever it is, if it's that bad?
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@SW-User I tried if maked it worse
Thespis · M
Honestly, that's one of those things you should talk to a professional about. There's a whole branch of psychology dedicated to sexuality and addiction.
meat18 · 61-69, M
@Thespis doesnt work! lol. well, didnt for me. tried groups, counseling, hypnosis..zilch, nada!
Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M
I think you should just be who you are and embrace your fantasies and enjoy them...
Works for me 😋
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Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@PDaddy huh?
SW-User
If it's degrading to yourself then it's probably not healthy for you..
Try finding other types of porn to watch and make a point to avoid watching things that make you feel bad about yourself..

I know what you mean though, been there myself.
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@SW-User thank you ❤️
SW-User
@Medoesnotcare
Don't mess with your own head like that, it won't lead you anywhere you want to be..
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@SW-User yea thanks
Benjr134 · M
I don’t stop myself. I just don’t give into the physical act.
Shiki ·
Avoid watching it, and avoid triggering thoughts.
Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M
If it turns you on, then it’s ok
Benjr134 · M
Fantasizing unless it’s illegal, I generally don’t even think about it. However, it doesn’t affect me with a partner luckily. It’s when you are with someone and it affects you, then it could be a problem.
Benjr134 · M
@Benjr134 did not realize I already responded. Lol
Sounds like your mind has been affected by porn. This is why they advise people don't watch it.

To fix it, just stop watching it. Eventually you'll find arousal in normal sex, especially if you have a partner who you experience it with.
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@Qwerty14 thank you ❤️
@Medoesnotcare If you need a partner, I'm available haha
Montanaman · M
@Qwerty14 good advice 👍
You just have to open Your mind and stop stressing about what others think are kinky. Anything that excites you in this way is a good thing for you. Enjoy the freedom
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@looking4thesun the problem is afterwards when I’m crying my eyes out cause I feel like shit and like I deserved everything that happened
@Medoesnotcare again I say if you enjoyed yourself and had an exciting orgasm then, yes did deserve it because it's something you wanted.
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@looking4thesun no like for example if I was called names and stuff of end up really depressed and hurting myself afterwards because I think all the names are true and I obsess over them and think I deserve to be hurt
Chelsiegirl · 46-50, T
I just go with it.. as long as its not going to hurt anyone sure its fine.
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@Chelsiegirl thank you
Chelsiegirl · 46-50, T
@Medoesnotcare if u ever need a non judgemenal ear ill listen. Im transgender i deal with alot of depression and self hate. I dont go threw the same thing as u do but im sure we deal with the same kinds of feelings.
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@Chelsiegirl thank you ❤️
Gentlequill · 51-55, M
It's how our minds work. Think about the ways that your cheeseburger has changed over the years. It's not just meat and cheese anymore.
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@Gentlequill I don’t understand ? Maybe it’s cause I don’t like cheeseburgers and never have ?
Try celibacy for a while. You'll get over those bad kinks...and start appreciating yourself ...and will cum sooner too.
@Medoesnotcare like what? 🤔
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@Vivaci football , running then o had lots of assignments for college , I literally made sure I was busy constantly
@Medoesnotcare maybe it's just your age...try to divert your mind from taboo kinks as much as you can. It's all bout mind control. 😏
CelestiaStella · 22-25, F
Not really sure you can, aside from just repressing all that stuff.
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@CelestiaStella I think you just want it more then
CelestiaStella · 22-25, F
@Medoesnotcare and then the need for it manifests itself in weird and unhealthy ways. You really can't.
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Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@geoam1 cause it’s disgusting , degrading and addictive
Julianking · M
Enjoy what you want too, may I ask what you like, PM me if you don't want to say here?
Montanaman · M
@Julianking...And he's outta here!🤪
bluemachine · 31-35, M
embrace the darkness my friend😈
bluemachine · 31-35, M
@Medoesnotcare lol what do u search for thats so nasty that needs deleting? tell me your fantasies
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@bluemachine my one direction obsession , it’s quite embarrassing
bluemachine · 31-35, M
@Medoesnotcare lol but thats not nasty
betabored · 31-35, M
may be you had those kinks and never realized?
betabored · 31-35, M
@Medoesnotcare can i explain in pm?
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@betabored I guess yeah
betabored · 31-35, M
@Medoesnotcare waiting reply!
meat18 · 61-69, M
so, how goes this ...still getting turned on by things you shouldnt?
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
Yes why @meat18
wheels1972 · M
if it makes you happy and its not hurting anyone or illegal its fine
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@wheels1972 okay thanks ❤️
wheels1972 · M
@Medoesnotcare if its in the mind its just fantasy.
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Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@shyuncut4u 😂😂
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Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@shyuncut4u lol okay x
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
Try to remind yourself how wrong it is
@vetguy1991 Masturbation is never wrong.
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
scooogy · 31-35, MVIP
When did that first come up?
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SW-User
I just don't eat foods for a bit, then my hunger shuts off my sex drive cause I'm hungry. 🤷‍♂️
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@SW-User lol
SW-User
@Medoesnotcare If it works, it works. 🤷‍♂️
Blazer420 · 36-40, M
I feel as long as it's not hurting anyone or involving children/animals than who cares what you're into. If you dont like your fetishes maybe try refraining from taking part in them/watching them in porno. That may help but i still feel you'd still have the fetish deep down. I always wondered that about myself too. Like if i tried ignoring my fetishes, stopped watching bondage porn n stopped asking women im dating to tie me up, maybe eventually I'd lose the fetish. I kinda doubt it thou lol
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@Blazer420 lol thanks , yeah it doesn’t involve hurting anyone else just it affects myself mentally , like great in the moment if you get me but then afterwards I feel like shit
Blazer420 · 36-40, M
@Medoesnotcare ah i got ya, kinda like a high while it's going on but than immediate regret. If you don't mind me asking, what is it you're into? (totally understand if you're not comfortable answering that) I can kinda relate to that feeling. After i "release" lol i feel really weird about what i like. Not guilty or bad, jus weird, like im not proud of it n i dont really care if ppl know, but i wouldn't want anyone to see or talk about it lol if that makes any sense.
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@Blazer420 it’s not guilt , I’ve body dysmorphia and depression and doing it just makes it worse
😳 I’m not sure.
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@PrinceArthas okay thanks
meat18 · 61-69, M
personally, i think you should just enjoy it. whatever gets you off, regardless of whether its mild or sown and ddirty!!
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@meat18 no
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@MartinTheFirst My interests are not that bad 😂😂😂
SW-User
Have you tried quitting it cold turkey
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
Yes I lasted a month but it made me want it more @SW-User
EndlessHorizon · 46-50, M
I used to worry about stuff like that a lot more than I do now.
I see it as a means to an end. The dirtier the fantasy, the more powerful the orgasm for me, so why settle for a more boring fantasy and less satisfying climax?
But that’s me. If it bothers you that much afterwards, I hope you find a way to avoid those fantasies.
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@EndlessHorizon thanks 💕
maturedragon · 26-30, M
maybe shut yourself off it for a while? and try to preoccupy your mind with something else?
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@maturedragon I’ve tried it’s hard
maturedragon · 26-30, M
@Medoesnotcare looking at a lot of the other replies, and agreeing with them like with as long as it's not hurting anyone then it should be okay, or have really weird kinks like some of what ladylavina says then it's fine, maybe not stop but lessen the amount of time? anyway good luck
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
Thank you 🙏🙏@maturedragon
Do you watch porn?
@Medoesnotcare Anyway, if you do watch porn, it fries your dopamine receptors and numbs you to these things, so you need to watch weirder and weirder crap to get off. Stop watching porn, and that will slowly ware off.
@Medoesnotcare He's asking because he is trying to help you. He's not judging you.
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JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
well how bad is the stuff? if its just dirty who cares,that is normal sexuality.
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@JimboSaturn I guess thanks
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
@Medoesnotcare the problem with porn is that the normal stuff gets boring and you need increasingly stronger stuff to get off.
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@JimboSaturn deffinetely
SW-User
If it’s helping you enjoying masturbation and not hurting anybody try not to let it get you down regardless of what your imagination is doing
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@SW-User thanks ❤️
SW-User
@Medoesnotcare most welcome 😀
biandlargeny · 56-60, M
First off you're going to drive yourself mad trying not to think of the things that you are sexually attracted too. Even if illegal you can still think about them and masturbate to those fantasies. If not illegal just enjoy them
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Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@SW-User ok thank you ❤️
19cmpenpal · M
Hell no . Never
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
yikes lol... I can understand to some degree but I think you should take a break watching things like that once in a while.
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
lol thanks @MartinTheFirst
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Medoesnotcare for what? :o
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@MartinTheFirst idk replying
At least where I’m concerned it was more when I was younger and just grew out of the freaky shit..... finally 😅
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@GBPackersFan lmao hopefully , thank you
LUVELACE · T
AFFS,yeh drop jezez well dead,
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@LUVELACE you having a nice stalk of me page der? 😂

 
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