What's the best solo road trip you have taken so far?Doesn't matter the distance as long as you did it alone. Please share how you felt about it as well.
What works best when helping you lose weight?I gained 50 lbs last year. Everyone thinks it suits me very well... but I could afford to lose more. I started the calcium pyruvate diet and lose an average of 6-7 lbs a week--when I'm consistent with it. Any tips that work for you? Any go to...See More »
Is it a bad sign if you don't have textual chemistry?I started dating this guy. We do not have great textual (convo via text messages) chemistry, but we get along just fine f2f and sexually. He's 13 years my senior and divorced. We also have a very mild language barrier (he's Russian). Thoughts? ALSO:...See More »
I Am Tired Of Being PoorYou'll struggle before you succeed. Taking this time off has really enhanced my ability to discipline myself. I cannot believe how irresponsible I was with my money when I was employed! Impulse shopping was a daily habit of mine. Now I've learned to...See More »
I Am UnemployedI decided to be brave enough to quit my management job to find something within my degree field. Here it is a month and a few days later, I'm still unemployed. I don't regret it. I'm just disappointed for not landing anything. I had one lead for a...See More »
My boyfriend wants me to meet his son. I'm nervous yet excited, any advice?So my boyfriend's son is coming to visit for a few weeks. I never met him, but I'm confident he's a cool dude just like his dad. So, he just asked me to join them on vacation for Father's Day and booked the flight so now I'm even more nervous than...See More »
I Am Determined To Be Happy, Happy, HappyExcuse me while I type through the tears. Today is my ULTIMATE BFF's birthday and it sucks I couldn't be there. What sucks even more is that tomorrow she's moving back up north. It's a bittersweet moment because I'm so proud of her and know that this...See More »
I Sometimes Feel So Hopeless That I Cannot Even Hope For HopeI look at my life and think wow it's Falling apart. But maybe, just maybe this is the beginning of it coming together.
I Need to VentI graduated college almost 5 months ago and yet I'm still at my current job. This job searching life is much more difficult than I expected. I hate how overwhelmed I am at my current job, which hinders my ability to apply for jobs *no free time*....See More »
I Think Interracial Relationships Are GreatI am in an interracial, age gap, polygamous (I also have a girlfriend, which he is okay with) relationship. Both of my partners are older than me. He is 14 years my senior while she is only 5. It is a wonderful relationship. I truly adore them both,...See More »
Which matters more to you: financial security for the rest of your life OR unconditional love from your significant other?Let's be honest here. WHY
I Have Something to SayRaise your glasses and your chins Here's a toast to new beginnings A toast to being alone with our thoughts and finding ourselves A toast to finding and being better A toast to honesty, trust, and resilience A toast to getting our shit together...See More »
I Like To Give AdviceThe most permanent impression you will ever make on someone is the last. The first impression is typically planned and shaped by you. However, the last impression is the one that shows who you really are as an individual. You could storm out,...See More »
I Am Going Through a Horrible Breakup [Painful Breakups]It didn't hit me that we were officially over until I started packing and removing our pictures from off the wall. You are kicking me out of the home, I made for us. But that's okay. I do not wish to be abused by you any longer. Enough is enough....See More »
I Want All Truth And Nothing But The TruthRecently I had an estranged experience on a dating site. Shocking? No, not at all--especially as it pertains to Tinder. So this guy reaches out, we connect, enjoying our conversation and all, lightly flirting so on and so forth. He asks me out, but...See More »
What' song immediately puts you in a great mood?Which song makes you break out dancing and singing out of nowhere? Where if you hear it (especially at random) you know you're about to lose your shit
I Have A New Years Resolution1. Getting this body back in shape. 2. Moving into my OWN apartment. 3. Removing myself from this toxic relationship. 4. Landing a great job with this degree. 5. Finding myself. 6. Finishing ALL of my books.
I Like Interracial RelationshipsI miss being in an interracial relationship. Not just with anyone; someone who loves me and adores me. Have hope for the new year. Cheers! *DISCLAIMER* this is not to say that someone within my race could not love and adore me. So calm your asses.
I Did Something I RegretI decided to be woman enough to tell the guy I was seeing that I dislike our limited interaction and me constantly reaching out to him (long story short). His reply is that I think we should just be friends. Puzzled and confused, I told him I thought...See More »
I Want To Write My Random Thoughts And FeelingsSomehow I lost myself trying to find you. Love does not hurt. Bruises and scars do bleed. You define my worth, I define my value. I'm lost in the crease between chapters While you continue to read ahead unbothered. I'm the embodiment of black...See More »