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I never been with a girl do you think a loving and dating a girl can alleviate my depression?

SW-User
No. Don't put that pressure on someone else.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
I'd suggest helping yourself first. Hire a personal trainer and get out some physical aggression. You need to prove to yourself you can do something to elicit change.

It's not any woman's job to have her natural empathy abused for your unlikely gain. That's what a therapist gets paid to do.

Get yourself on the right path, a woman will come naturally and you'll be more receptive.
Jazzy · 26-30, F
He might want a puppy too
Adogslife · 61-69, M
@JazzyC: holy fuck! That made me laugh hard 😀
Jazzy · 26-30, F
@Adogslife: 😂😂😂😂😂
It will only make it worse
@PsychoMantis: once you've experienced sex and don't get it for awhile you're depression will be 10 times worse
PsychoMantis · 31-35, M
@Nunlover: ah I'm not looking for sex though
@PsychoMantis: so get a pen pal ,there's women in prisons everywhere looking to correspond with nice guys
fluteacorn · 22-25, F
No. I will admit that pretty much all females are complete pain in the asses.
SW-User
A sense of purpose can go a long way into alleviating depression, and if you're with someone you want a future with, that can be your purpose. But relationships are hard work too, and that can make your mental problems worse. I would try your luck with a cat or a dog first, then once your mental health is better you can try looking for love
fairone · F
No.. U have to learn to love urself 1st..
I think having a great friend can do a lot better, if it is true that loving and dating a girl would help with depression. I wouldn't know since I have never had a girlfriend.
SW-User
No. Other people can't cure your depression. Maybe some people can try to help, but that's it, just easing pain. You can't make someone's depression disappear.
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Peaceful · F
It can help, but just remember it's not permanent. Meaning, as the relationship goes on, challenges will present themselves.
SW-User
i doubt it unless you hire a prostitute. since you dont think love is real
plungesponge · 41-45, M
Probably. They can also exacerbate it. lol. Choose carefully
tnjazz · 70-79, M
Or it can make you more psycho
Kitakat00 · 36-40, F
As a woman... No

 
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