I Am Battling Self Harm

I see not many have responded. I’m sure that’s not because they don’t care. But because they simply don’t know how to help. . .
And really; I don’t either because I am not in your situation. Nobody can ever truly understand exactly what someone is going through until they walk a mile in the other persons shoes.

But I’ll give it a shot in the dark; after all, I’ve seen a lot of very dark times, experienced a lot of loneliness from a lifetime spent alone, and have learned to be happy as I grew threw the darkness into the light. You can too, but you need to stop letting your mind run wild.
Stop the negative self-talk in your mind. Start thinking of yourself as worthwhile; forget about what [i][/i]“you think”[i][/i] others think about you. None of that bullshit really matters! Negative thoughts are like dark shadows, ghost haunting you as long as you let them. . .
As long as you have breath, then use that breath to find something good about yourself and about others. . .

Oh yes, , , and now it’s time to direct your attention to the elephant in the room;
the thing that will make the biggest difference in your life if you let it. . .
Stop thinking about yourself so much, and focus your attention on helping others. . .
Think of how you can be helpful, be kind, compassionate, and lift others up. It will take time, but after a while of thinking along those lines, you will be amazed at what kind of person you become. You will like yourself, and others will like you also.
Stop being preoccupied with thoughts of yourself, and start thinking of how you can help others. You will never be sorry. . .

i noticed that whatever we do in a certain moment of our life , it appear absolutely logic and obvious , like there isn't any other possibilities , even when we are doing something wrong , so this mean that we tend to do something because we get used to that ending up becoming unable to do something different , but still , in order to get rid of this pain in the a** , we have to remember that none is forcing us to self harm , so , we can start by strongly focusing on thoughts about love ourselves rather than harm ourselves , because we are precious and our body is all what we have ,so we must care about us like we are a living treasure , then those autolesionistic will appear really inappropriate and wrong , when those thoughts disturb us , it mean that because of some errors we are thinking about them , so first of all focus on thoughts about self love , and if even during that we still get disturbed by those thoughts , well it only means that we have to better focus on self love, also , is important to become completely unable to think about any kind of sufferings and self arm and only able to conceive self love , even when we have to use brute force against someone , we must focus then make it natural the approach that allow us to badly defeat him\her in a " clean " way , the same goes if we have to put an end to the life of some cruel bastard , a painless and quick death , in other words , let just erase the sufferings in and our of ourselves , and more important , let's always be focused on ourselves , so we can do better everything else as a consequence of a proper caring of ourselves , sorry , english is my second language :P