I Have a Question

I have so many women in my life who tell me that I'm the perfect kind of guy in regards to personality, character, moral judgement, the way I view the world, how I help others, and most of all... how I treat women (the answer to that... with respect). Yet none of them are willing to date me or be a Friend with Benefits; yet they are willing to give it up on the fly to some douchbag that treats them in the complete opposite way.

I'm a descent looking guy... not handsome or great, but not ugly or grotesque; the happy medium if you will. They all tell me that I am a good looking guy; that I dress well both casually and formally. Yet I'm a permanent resident of the friend zone against my will.

So here is my question... why not me if I am so ideal?

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RisingVirginia · 26-30, F

No, I date good men with confident and dominant attitudes.

sttos · 61-69, M

@RisingVirginia You might have a point there, as our friend @JQuest7575 is the only "common denominator". But a man has to be the way he feels is true to who he WANTS to be.

I suggest that Johnny hasn't yet met (or bedded) EVERY woman on the planet. And that's the maddening part -- the idea that the woman who will value him in the ways he needs to be valued MIGHT be out there, somewhere, just around the next relationship.

RisingVirginia · 26-30, F

Are you a "nice" guy? They always finish last, harsh truth

lasergraph · 70-79, M

They obviously aren't looking for ideal.

Nature3 · 56-60, M

@RisingVirginia so you date a'holes then?

Justenjoyit · 56-60, M

Mybe women like excitement

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