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I Got The Cane At School

At my junior school (age 8-11, the lower school of a leading boys' grammar school), all misdemeanours were punishable with a detention. Four detentions in one term meant the cane.

The first time a member of my class was up for the cane was, I think, at the end of my second term. A boy in my class was given a detention and burst into tears because it was his fourth of the term. However, days went past without his being summoned to the head's study, and in the event the caning never happened. It transpired that his parents had intervened and prevented the caning.

The rest of us had mixed feelings about this. Nobody wished a caning on anyone. (We all had, or thought we had, a vague idea of what it must be like to be caned, even though very few of us had ever felt the cane.) On the other hand, we all knew that if it had been us, our parents would have allowed justice to take its course. And that's how it should be, I think. If you join a club you should abide by its rules, even if you disagree with them.
Pop0159 · 61-69, M
Did he receive any other descipline in place of the cane .. .. It would need to be comparable .. ..
Pop0159 · 61-69, M
@MartinII: restrictions, detention, chores, community service .. .. the difference is without something replacing the cane the rule becomes a non-rule .. if something is given in place the rule remains only the consequences change.. ..
MartinII · 70-79, M
@Pop0159: Well, I agree, but my point is that the cane was special. Some of us knew what it was like, others had to guess. We would all have taken the view that by avoiding six of the best this boy had got off lightly, whatever alternative punishment he might have received
Pop0159 · 61-69, M
@MartinII: Well since you didn't kno of any he likely got off and you all learned that "life is not fare" ..
ArtieKat · M
Agreed, Martin. Although not a goody-goody at school I avoided the cane but have always believed it was a legitimate deterrent.

 
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